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My rant for the night.

Neighborhood Party tonight..Everyone is there. Except me. (kicking my teddy bear)lol

I live in a small private subdivision. The neighborhood gets together for parties often. At the last party, A husband got uncomfortably friendly with me. A hello kiss and moving in too close. He demanded I have a shot with him. I avoided him for the night and chalked it up to alcohol.

Now I have been taken off the guest list. Not a word or explanation. I am only speculating it was the situation at the last party...Who knows what other social faux pas I might have made.

How did I become the bad guy here??? Damn it, We own our home.

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Stop speculating...

Ask...

It could be any number of things..

But if you wanna know - ask...

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I just stay away from people as much as possible for exactly that reason. I'm too old to deal with drama from people I don't even particularly like.

This new philosophy has made my life so much easier.

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@@KindaFamiliar

In the scheme of things..Not a big issue. Just ranting and kicking the Teddy Bear tonight. I will talk and smooth this over sometime this week.

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@@Babbs

Wish I could avoid the drama. I'm the president of our housing association.

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@@jenn1

Or..

Stir up some sh*t...

It's definitely an option...

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@@LipstickLady

Nothing to lose..I just don't wanna be a grown up today.

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I'm all for the mooning...

Down trou ladies!!!

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@@jenn1

Try it on me...

I'll tell you whether or not I feel hit on...

But be warned - I'm no husband...

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@@LipstickLady

Nothing to lose..I just don't wanna be a grown up today.

That was my week

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@@LipstickLady

Nothing to lose..I just don't wanna be a grown up today.

I get this.....bigtime !

@@LipstickLady

Nothing to lose..I just don't wanna be a grown up today.

That was my week

Amen, brother. Amen.

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I vote ask... then give them hell if needed. Not your fault someone's husband is a creeper.

Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

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