Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Not calling me to schedule sx



Recommended Posts

This is my first time on here but I am having a hard time with my doctor not keeping me in the loop. I live in TN and the surgeon I was going have moved away. They told me at the,beginning I could have the surgery in a few weeks, which would have been the end of February. Once he moved, this new doctor is taking over and can't get his credentials till after June... No one is keeping me in the loop. No one seems to give a S@$! That I really need to know what is going on and when I can at least have some sort of an idea of when my surgery will be... Has this happended to anyone else?? Am I the I only one who feels totally forgotten?

Sent from my VS986 using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

that is so frustrating! I would keep after them and ask to speak to a manager if needed.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Here's the reason they can't tell you when it will be: The new doctor needs to go through a credentialing process to be approved by the hospital to do surgeries there. That process includes the hospital's credentialing folks to verify all his licenses , certifications, and his education, but then a hospital committee meets to formally make a decision. Those committees generally only meet monthly.

The surgeon's office only has control over how fast he gets his application in to the hospital. After that it's all on them.

The process is actually a protection for you as a patient, even though it's totally frustrating.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I have. The manager made a big deal about coming in to meet the new doctor. Told me that I would know answers from that visit.

When I went to that appt about 3 weeks ago, I waited to be seen for an 1hr. The doctor comes in and asks if I had any questions. When I told,him I wanted to schedule sx he said they would call me... That was 3 weeks ago!!

Sent from my VS986 using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I just wish they would be so kind as to tell me something. Anything!! I spent over 1,000 dollars on testing for this surgery and I'm concerned it will never happen.

Sent from my VS986 using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Are there any other Bariatric Programs in your area? It would seem that if you are being delayed so is everyone else waiting for him to get hospital privileges. How long will it take for them to get "caught up"? I would think about going somewhere else if you don't get a date very soon.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Only other one that's close is in Memphis which is about 6hr away... While the one I am looking at going too is 6minutes away..... I just called them, they said they are waiting on bcbs to recognize the new doctor and that everyone is waiting.... I don't know what to do.. Wait or go to Memphis

Sent from my VS986 using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Maryville, tn

Sent from my VS986 using the BariatricPal App

In fact, when I call to get,an update they are very frustrated...it hasn't been a good experience at all.

Sent from my VS986 using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I think you need a little smile, so here goes.

I know that "sx" is an abbreviation for "surgery."

Still, every time I see your headline, I see it as "not calling me to schedule sex."

And then I giggle. Yeah, I'm a dork sometimes. ;)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Bashbee91

      Hey guys new to the process looking forward to this new life. 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Bugg

      Hi everyone! I’m brand new here. I just went through all my pre-op requirements per my insurance company and now everything has been submitted and I’m just waiting for final approval and my surgery date. I’ve been doing research, watching YouTube videos, TikTok’s, ect.. trying to prepare my mind and what to expect so I’ll be ready for the surgery. I was so sure and so set and so ready and excited. However, now that I’ve done everything & it’s almost here, I am sooooooo scared! I know why I want it bc I’ve tried everything and I just don’t feel like I can lose weight by myself. I’m tired of being overweight my entire life. I’m miserable, but I keep psyching myself out afraid of GERD bc I know how that can be and I don’t want to have to get a bypass after already gaining the courage to even get VSG. I’m scared of complications like I’mgoing to regret doing it and be depressed that I didn’t just be more disciplined and try again to lose the weight on my own even sitting here typing this knowing in my mind i just can’t and don’t possess the discipline. I’m also afraid I won’t be able to handle the restrictions of the sleeve. What do I eat? I don’t know how to eat healthy really and don’t enjoy healthy food. I don’t know how to do this! I feel so defeated!Someone tell me they felt anything similar to this or am I not ready? I thought I was. I am so tired of being sick and tired and so tired of myself and so tired of being stuck and stuck in this body and somebody different on the outside from what I feel inside. I just want to ball up and cry.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • buildabetteranna

      over 20 lbs down since4 the pre surgery diet and surgery on the 14th
      · 1 reply
      1. Selina333

        Yay!! Congrats. I know how good that feels. 🤩

    • Jenopolis

      Had a sleeve in 2017, lost over 100 pounds. Had a DS surgery this year (2025) for more sustainable weight loss. 🤞
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • buildabetteranna

      The 14th was my day. I am home and recovery is going pretty smooth. They even let me walk out of the hospital. Picture of me in recovery curtesy of my boyfriend lol. 

      · 3 replies
      1. DaisyChainOz

        Glad it went well!! Wishing you a speedy recovery and wonderful success!! 🤗

      2. buildabetteranna

        Thank you ❤️

      3. Selina333

        Neat you have a pic of this day! I was sooo happy to get my surgery. It was well worth it! And I'm not even near my goal. I had surgery Dec. 2!

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×