Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Recommended Posts

Hello everyone!

I'm now 6 days banded and getting back to normal life at home. I really wanted the gastric sleeve but couldn't afford it, and my mentality around my weight was getting obsessive so I wanted something done immediately.

My insides feel really tight, and if I even drink Water too fast I feel close to being sick, but I guess that means it's working. I have one tiny problem - I already think I can see a loss in my face, but the scales aren't showing any loss. Did this happen to anyone? I thought you got a big loss in week one, but not so far. Should I be happy to see a loss rather than see a number on a scale?

Many thanks xx

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Congrats on starting your weight loss journey. Just so you are aware, everyone loses weight at different rates. There is no 'normal' except to say that 1-2 lbs a week is considered a good loss. Also..you're likely not hungry because you may be swollen from the surgery. Your hunger can come back very quickly which is why you have to have those fills till you really feel the band kick in like it's supposed to.

Oh, and if you think your face looks thinner, than it probably is. Be aware that the scale can be a dangerous thing. Yes, it tells you if you are going in the right direction but it's a fickle piece of equipment and you can fluctuate constantly. Many folks don't bother with the scale and track themselves based on things like how clothing fits, or other ways besides the number that the scale provides.

Good luck and keep us posted on your progress.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Welcome to the other side of surgery! These boards have lots of nice people and much advice. Most of all. Please do what your dr says

And take all our personal advice however you like.

You are at the start of a very exciting time when you lose weight and it does NOT return !

That being said, I predict you will feel great when you start your downhill loss.... Please keep posting and let us veterans know how you are.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thanks for the kind replies!

Today has been my first really bad day since the surgery (by which I mean eating things I shouldn't) so I realised a big thing for me will be making sure I can't get to sugary things. I'm ok if they aren't in sight, but if they are, I can't control my impulses. So I deleted my JustEat account and am donating all the Old Me food to a foodbank tomorrow.

Other than that, I do feel like life is on the up. I had a big splash out on some nice hair dye and fancy facials to try and get back to being focussed on being happy and I think it's really worked. Not feeling any big weight loss yet, but back on the wagon and onwards and upwards!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Bashbee91

      Hey guys new to the process looking forward to this new life. 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Bugg

      Hi everyone! I’m brand new here. I just went through all my pre-op requirements per my insurance company and now everything has been submitted and I’m just waiting for final approval and my surgery date. I’ve been doing research, watching YouTube videos, TikTok’s, ect.. trying to prepare my mind and what to expect so I’ll be ready for the surgery. I was so sure and so set and so ready and excited. However, now that I’ve done everything & it’s almost here, I am sooooooo scared! I know why I want it bc I’ve tried everything and I just don’t feel like I can lose weight by myself. I’m tired of being overweight my entire life. I’m miserable, but I keep psyching myself out afraid of GERD bc I know how that can be and I don’t want to have to get a bypass after already gaining the courage to even get VSG. I’m scared of complications like I’mgoing to regret doing it and be depressed that I didn’t just be more disciplined and try again to lose the weight on my own even sitting here typing this knowing in my mind i just can’t and don’t possess the discipline. I’m also afraid I won’t be able to handle the restrictions of the sleeve. What do I eat? I don’t know how to eat healthy really and don’t enjoy healthy food. I don’t know how to do this! I feel so defeated!Someone tell me they felt anything similar to this or am I not ready? I thought I was. I am so tired of being sick and tired and so tired of myself and so tired of being stuck and stuck in this body and somebody different on the outside from what I feel inside. I just want to ball up and cry.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • buildabetteranna

      over 20 lbs down since4 the pre surgery diet and surgery on the 14th
      · 1 reply
      1. Selina333

        Yay!! Congrats. I know how good that feels. 🤩

    • Jenopolis

      Had a sleeve in 2017, lost over 100 pounds. Had a DS surgery this year (2025) for more sustainable weight loss. 🤞
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • buildabetteranna

      The 14th was my day. I am home and recovery is going pretty smooth. They even let me walk out of the hospital. Picture of me in recovery curtesy of my boyfriend lol. 

      · 3 replies
      1. DaisyChainOz

        Glad it went well!! Wishing you a speedy recovery and wonderful success!! 🤗

      2. buildabetteranna

        Thank you ❤️

      3. Selina333

        Neat you have a pic of this day! I was sooo happy to get my surgery. It was well worth it! And I'm not even near my goal. I had surgery Dec. 2!

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×