Tired of discussing my weight with people

[sleever54 8]

I'm exhausted, specialty because I'm little underweight and that's all we talk about. I'm so tired of it. I start telling people I'm feeling better, I'm eating a lot! ( unfortunately I still can't eat much) with some proper I feel like they are sincere, with others I think they are just jealous. I can't eat out with friends anymore because they will watch what I eat and talk about my weight loss etc. can we talk about something else? At church everyone ask me about my weight, my family and friends all ask everyday if I eat. That's it! I'm tired to talk about. Even if I try to explain they said: well eat ice cream. No matter I explain to them I suffer from Dumping syndrome. I give up!

Perhaps the best skill to learn and try with people is how to change a topic quickly when it comes to your weight. As soon as it starts be ready to ask someone else a question like how's your daughter. Did you hear it's gonna rain tomorrow. Who are you voting for? Yada Yada yada....good luck. Hope they leave you alone some.

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[Elle1906 12]

It bothers my mum a lot. She gets the "are you sick?" And "you've lost a lot of weight, is it healthy" ... Which sucks because it took so much to get healthy but she is starting to tone so hopefully that'll die down

I don't mind it, but yeah it's definitely the people who haven't seen you and don't see you daily who comment the most