male only Guys who started over 400 lbs.

[Mersh 173]

@zone_03 and @DaAlchemist Thanks guys.

Regarding work, I felt 100% by day 6. But definately depends on how your body heals, age, health status... For me I'm 32, 6'3, no pre-op health conditions except being large and in charge... I've read some guys with high blood pressure, diabetes... and so forth having post-op issues in recovery...

Also I've come to realize that the stories you read aren't the norm... You will read 9 bad stories to 1 good story. And these forums seem to be a spot for people to greave, complain or find out if "they are normal"...

Good luck on your journeys.

M

[blizair09 3,250]

On 9/22/2017 at 1:51 PM, Brian B said:

I personally found losing weight to be the easy part... I think it will take years to overcome the mental aspect. I'm 17 months post-op and still feel weird getting into elevators.. basically anything in a social setting... constantly thinking... everyone is looking looking at me... the elephant in the room.. I lost 183 lbs and I think it just takes time to visualize and be comfortable in your new body. Believe me it will all be worth it. You don't even realize the depth of your depression until it's gone. Happiness is in your future my friend.

I'm the same way. After losing 216 pounds, I still struggle with seeing the old me sometimes. And being newly single (after 8+ years, no less) and back "out there," it is weird to me that I am getting hit on by all of these hot guys constantly. Trust me, I am adjusting to all of it, but it is still so much to take in sometimes.

A few weeks ago, I went to Dillards to buy a couple of new outfits to wear out that weekend. I had to buy a small shirt and size 32 jeans. When I tried on the Medium, the sales guy was like "you need a smaller size." When I said that would be a small, he said "then you need a small." As I stood frozen in amazement, he asked me what was up and I took him through the whole story. While he was flatteringly amazed (he was cute, btw), I think I was more amazed.

It is certainly a very different life, and no matter how long this journey has been going on, and how strong you are, it is a lot to adjust to...

[blizair09 3,250]

On 9/22/2017 at 1:57 PM, Brian B said:

I remember my last trip to casual male .. the woman said this will probably be the last time we see you... it was such a strangely happy moment.

I, too, remember this day. At my Casual Male, they almost looked at me like some kind of traitor. Damn, that **** was so expensive. It is amazing how many cute things I can get for cheap from the mall on just about any day these days!

[SalOdyssey 441]

On 9/23/2017 at 10:29 PM, JohnnyCakes said:

truly unbelievable.

Thank you!

[DaAlchemist 13]

So I just got the call this is all really happening got my insurance approval ( Only took 3 days) and this afternoon is my Pre-Surgical visit so looks like come Oct. 16 will be my surgery date

[zone_03 11]

So I just got the call this is all really happening got my insurance approval ( Only took 3 days) and this afternoon is my Pre-Surgical visit so looks like come Oct. 16 will be my surgery date

Congratulations...

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[zone_03 11]

I have a question for anyone that can answer. I have lymphedema in my legs. It is from being overweight, My doctor even said I carry more weight in my legs than any other part of my body I was wondering if anyone else has this and if they have had surgery does it help it? My doctor basically said it will never be like when I was young. I am just wondering how much the surgery does help. Thanks guys...

[Berry78 4,261]

I have severe varicose veins in one leg. That leg is always larger than the other one. It was never diagnosed as lymphadema, but it IS retained Fluid.

Anyway, I am 6 months postop and have lost 92lbs. Both legs have decreased in size. My normal leg decreased by 2 inches in circumference, while my bad leg has decreased by 3 inches. There is still an inch and a half difference between them.

I don't ever expect them to be equal, but at least the leg does shrink as the fat decreases. I expect yours will do the same.

[Rainbow_Warrior 996]

18 minutes ago, Berry78 said:

but at least the leg does shrink as the fat decreases.

And, in time, there's better than an 85% chance that the circulation will improve ... as long as you're not smoking or hiding from regular exercise.

[Berry78 4,261]

My valve is fubar, so even with surgery on the veins, I don't hold my breath as to long term "cure". But at least my legs are now getting small enough to consider wearing the compression pantyhose.

[zone_03 11]

@Berry78Thank you so much for the information.. Yeah my right leg is much much bigger than my left. But I also get it wrapped twice a week.. I am looking forward not having to do that..

[bearman81 1]

This thread has been very helpful, thank you to everyone who contributed so far! I am getting sleeved in a few weeks and it's motivating to hear stories from other guys in similar positions

[JohnnyCakes 593]

On 9/30/2017 at 9:02 AM, Berry78 said:

I have severe varicose veins in one leg. That leg is always larger than the other one. It was never diagnosed as lymphadema, but it IS retained Fluid.

Anyway, I am 6 months postop and have lost 92lbs. Both legs have decreased in size. My normal leg decreased by 2 inches in circumference, while my bad leg has decreased by 3 inches. There is still an inch and a half difference between them.

I don't ever expect them to be equal, but at least the leg does shrink as the fat decreases. I expect yours will do the same.

because you are a man? who has been thru this? advising another man? who posted his question in The Guys Room? in a thread titled "Guys who started over 400lbs"?

please... jesus christ, it's not that hard. READ THE FORUM NAME YOU ARE POSTING IN BEFORE YOU POST. and if that doesn't clue you in, here's another: WOMEN STAY OUT OF THE GUYS ROOM.

[HB76356 122]

I ha some severe swelling in one leg, due to Fluid and some lymphedema in both legs. The swelling is gone, but the discoloration is still there. It doesn't look awesome, but it's not hindering me like the swelling was.

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[DaAlchemist 13]

Well guys I made it thru 2 days post op went from 416 to 391 on my 2 week liquid diet right now learn to eat has been the hardest part

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