My Husband Abandoned me 3 days before Surgery :(

[Valentina 2,642]

Thank you all for your kind words.

Omg Valentina I'm so sorry

Oh my goodness that is the worst thing I could imagine Valentina I am so sorry


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Sooo sorry Valentina .......thank you so much for your words!!! I really appreciate!!


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Thank you all for your kind words.

I told my story to illustrate that there is life after the total loss of support. I cried, I denied and I got pissed. THEN, I got back on track.

I had to remember that I had my WLS for ME. I had to relearn to love myself,--to learn that I am worthy of a happy and healthy life.

I takes time, but there truly is a new life out here. We just have to go and get it!

Just keep posting and the wonderful folks here, (myself included now) will help keep you focused and on track. We all really do care for one another. You'll not have to take this well rewarded journey alone.

I promise.

[sweetiediaz 20]

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[RNsleever715 117]

Valentina, that is heartbreaking. I am so terribly sorry.

[ylluz 151]

Wow he didnt deserve you!!! Thank God he left, it hurts now but trust it will get better!! Stay strong.

[lizh22 4]

Oh my Goodness! You're a beautiful QUEEN, and he'll regret his decision on his way to Hell!

Stay prayerful???????????? and shine like the Diamond You are!

You can't bless and curse with the same mouth, the more you bless who hurts the more God bless your life

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[helpless 10]

Sorry that has happened to you but like the others I think you will be better off without him. We are all here for you cause you do need support. Keep us informed. You will do great but I know how hard it is to raise kids by yourself hang in there.. this is going to make you feel so much better about yourself

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[Annietime 1]

Daisy is so right!

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[sweetiediaz 20]

Thank you so much, it's hard but everyone is right!! From the start he wasn't happy to know I was getting the surgery and didn't support me for my decision to do it for myself and my childrens....to improve my health!! I'm battling depression can't sleep because of all the anger building up in me but I'm also have faith in the lord that or later things will get much better!!! I appreciate everyone supports... Means a lot!!

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[Alex Brecher 10,515]

@@sweetiediaz, I (thankfully) haven’t experienced anything like that, but I want you to know we are all supporting you and wishing you the best!

[sweetiediaz 20]

Thank you so much Alex Brecher!!

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[melie 33]

Thank you so much, it's hard but everyone is right!! From the start he wasn't happy to know I was getting the surgery and didn't support me for my decision to do it for myself and my childrens....to improve my health!! I'm battling depression can't sleep because of all the anger building up in me but I'm also have faith in the lord that or later things will get much better!!! I appreciate everyone supports... Means a lot!!

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Hi sweetiediaz I know what your going through and can tell you its a rough road but it will get better. My husband left my son and I a few years back while I was fighting cancer. Biggest jerk move. It hurt, tore me up inside, years of taking antidepressents. Not only was I fighting cancer, I was raising a 1 yr old alone and had no job. It wasn't easy, I was so depressed but I can tell you now I'm happier then I've ever been. We deserve someone who will be there for us and support us with our life choices.

Keep your head up and smile, remember your kids depend on you and it only hurts them to see you hurt. Keep your faith..it does get better!

[sweetiediaz 20]

Hi Melie, so sorry for what you went through... I know it's very hard!!! Thank you so much for sharing your story! It gives me strength and hope to move forward!!! I would love to hear more from your experience if you don't mind!! I'm struggling everyday with this painful journey but very happy with my weight loss surgery!! Take care ????????????