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My Husband Abandoned me 3 days before Surgery :(



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I have four words for you.....alimony and child support.

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I say forgive him ask the Lord to bless him, move on and ..

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1 Peter 5:7

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Oh my Goodness! You're a beautiful QUEEN, and he'll regret his decision on his way to Hell!

Stay prayerful???????????????????????? and shine like the Diamond ???? You are! ????

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Praying for you & also for your kiddos going through this. I would say don't look back no matter what, because I would guess at some point he will come back regretful (as easy as it sounds I know it is hard for the first little while.) The Lord has something in store for you.

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This site is all about supporting each other and having each other's backs. I know that well.

My S.O. committed suicide the morning of my sleeve surgery. I feel what you are feeling all over again. It hurts on so many levels that your head can't wrap itself around all of your heart's aches.

The mantra that got me through:

I never knew how strong I was until being strong was the only option I had.

Let the sorrow and the heart ache flow over you and then "let it go".

Be kind to yourself. You deserve it.

Prayers going up for you.

Keep posting and sharing. It helps.

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:(

Have to agree with other posters, if someone is going to do this at that point in time, you are probably better off starting your new life without that baggage.

My gracious ... that is a total low :( hugs to you.

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Oh my goodness that is the worst thing I could imagine Valentina I am so sorry

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So sorry to hear this. Hang in there!

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