Husband left me!

[Julie norton 2,850]

Time is your friend. Reevaluate this topic from the strength WLS gives you after things calm down. Things may look and feel much differently later. Really several months can change many things!!

Best of luck

[judy1234 27]

I second all the supportive advice of the others here, but would just add: Since he won't go to counseling, go alone. You'll need a lot of emotional support as you go through the weight loss process and hormonal changes. And it sounds like he was mentally checked out anyway -- that is not normal behavior for someone who loves you. Maybe couples counseling would have just dragged out the pain.

I am so, so sorry.

[JapGirl 229]

My surgery is on the 23rd as well! Let's be buddies!

[Yadie2006 75]

It is very hard to be objective about a relationship when you are in it....One day you will thank him for showing his ass! Best of luck to you and your new life! You will not regret this!!

thank you

My surgery is on the 23rd as well! Let's be buddies!

sure!!! im so nervious

[Bluesky1 191]

It is very hard to be objective about a relationship when you are in it....One day you will thank him for showing his ass! Best of luck to you and your new life! You will not regret this!!

thank you

>My surgery is on the 23rd as well! Let's be buddies!

sure!!! im so nervious

ME TOO! I wan't to get it over with too, but scared. We can all be Feb. 23rd Buddies!

[JapGirl 229]

Let's make a new thread for Feb 23rd! That way we can keep In touch!

[JupiterinVirgo 846]

Don't you dare let him stop you!

[Indygirl1 14]

I sorry you had to go through this. I really believe that he probably had planned on leaving prior to your surgery. I wish you the best.

[Lauriessp 18]

Wow what a jerk. You need to go to counseling with or without him. You have a lot to deal with physically, emotionally, and mentally. I just got sleeved on the 12th also. Just walking back into work is a giant step.

Counseling is Not for the weak. You got to know there is something wrong with him not you.

[Caroline G 25]

So sorry you're going through that!

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[SassyNanny 311]

Good Riddance! I'm single and have done this all on my own without a hitch. Don't let him bring his nasty attitude around you! You need to be clear headed and focused on your new rules. We are all here and between BP and your Drs office you have got this handled.

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