Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Recommended Posts

I hope to get my surgery date for the end of March beginning of April. I keep busy watching you tube vids on wls and of course reading everything on this site and elsewhere. In a recent post, I noted that I never had a FB account because I have never wanted to post pics of myself. Well that is going to be changed now. I'm going to do it big! Once I get to goal weight or maybe before if I'm looking as hot as I think I will (haha).

So here's a list of rewards for myself.

Facebook - as soon as I think I'm ready I'm going start posing and friending!

A new wardrobe - (no frickin sizes with an X in it), I want to wear dresses. I decided that's going to be my thing. Now, I never wear a dress unless I have too. Oh you know X...yeah she's has the best dresses!

A new haircut - I have curly hair. Have to make it more attractive. (working on this one now)

Makeup classes - I don't really know how to put this on but I'm going to learn!

I have been hiding for awhile. Eager to show the real me.

Share your list. I can't wait to read what others want for themselves.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Love your attitude! Here's my post: http://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/360035-the-start-of-my-new-life-in-2016/

And here's my list:

Things I just can't wait for:

- Stamina! Being able to explore all day and not have to stop to rest my aching feet and knees.

- Traveling comfortably. Airplane belts that fit. Not having to squeeze between people in a restaurant.

- Forgoing that first assessment when entering a room where I look around to see if I'm the fattest person there... you know what I mean.

- Summer dresses!!

-Cute shoes and cute clothes. Not having to shop in Lane Bryant for everything.

-If I need something, being able to simply go to the store and get it. Explaining to my boyfriend why I couldn't just go into the mall and get a winter coat was embarrassing. Not being able to buy emergency clothes in Central America.. ugh. Packing light and buying clothes wherever I travel to would be a real possibility.

-

-Theme park rides. I love roller coasters, and the last time I went, it was touch and go whether or not I fit in the seat.

-Boots that fit my calves!

-Skydiving

-Being able to do more than a couple sets of stairs without my knees starting to hurt

-Enough room to snuggle comfortably on the couch with my boyfriend

-GoRuck Tough!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I hope to get my surgery date for the end of March beginning of April. I keep busy watching you tube vids on wls and of course reading everything on this site and elsewhere. In a recent post, I noted that I never had a FB account because I have never wanted to post pics of myself. Well that is going to be changed now. I'm going to do it big! Once I get to goal weight or maybe before if I'm looking as hot as I think I will (haha).

So here's a list of rewards for myself.

Facebook - as soon as I think I'm ready I'm going start posing and friending!

A new wardrobe - (no frickin sizes with an X in it), I want to wear dresses. I decided that's going to be my thing. Now, I never wear a dress unless I have too. Oh you know X...yeah she's has the best dresses!

A new haircut - I have curly hair. Have to make it more attractive. (working on this one now)

Makeup classes - I don't really know how to put this on but I'm going to learn!

I have been hiding for awhile. Eager to show the real me.

Share your list. I can't wait to read what others want for themselves.

This is a great list.

There are some things I count as "rewards" and other things I have done or will do just because I want/need them.

I got my hair cut short not long after surgery. I have worn my hair long for years so it was a big change. I love it.

I bought myself some art glass I like about the time I hit a big milestone so I called it a reward. I am eyeing another piece and am approaching another significant milestone so I may indulge.

At other, less-significant milestones I have been scheduling massages.

I am getting close to a point where getting a pedicure won't be an ordeal, especially since I am undergoing treatment for my lymphedema, so I am looking forward to that.

When I get to goal weight I want to get a personal shopper at a nice store and build a good basic wardrobe. I also want at least one beautiful designer dress.

Other things are on my bucket list and I want to do them as I am able. Especially related to travel and some classes/workshops/conferences I want to attend.

My ultimate reward will be a trip to Hawaii to take surfing lessons and possibly a photography class.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I know those are more like milestones, but they're also rewards to myself. I also want to be a dresses person :) I might go a little crazy with the clothes.. but I don't even care!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Some of my milestones were:

  • no longer being morbidly obese according to BMI chart
  • no longer being obese according to BMI chart
  • no longer being overweight according to BMI chart
  • no longer shopping in plus size department
  • shopping in Junior's department
  • wearing a belt
  • shopping in Victoria's Secret
  • getting clothes from my skinny friends that are too small for them
  • riding a roller coaster
  • people not recognizing me
  • being called "in shape"
  • being able to do push ups
  • being able to run 3 miles without stopping
  • being able to do tricep dips

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

InnerSurferGirl, I have lymphedema too in one leg. Have you found that it improves any with weight loss?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

InnerSurferGirl, I have lymphedema too in one leg. Have you found that it improves any with weight loss?

Yes, it has improved with weight loss. Now that I am undergoing treatment it is really improving.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • LadyVeteran1

      Sleeve surgery is on April 14th.  I am counting the days!!  Can't wait!
      · 2 replies
      1. Brookie2shoes

        Me too girl!! Are you in the full liquid diet right now? It’s sooooo hard!

      2. LadyVeteran1

        Not yet. I was told I only have to do 24 hours of a liquid diet. But I have my pre-op tomorrow so I’m going to confirm if I need to do longer.

    • buildabetteranna

      Down 33 lbs and slightly stalled, but I'm gonna reevaluate and push through. I started back to work last week after 2 years of being disabled due to mental health as well as my weight. It's a great job and I'm just so happy to have this opportunity at a second chance at life. Hope everyone is having their best journey ❤️ Together, we got this!
      · 2 replies
      1. DaisyChainOz

        Great work Anna! Keep it up 😁

      2. buildabetteranna

        Thank you ❤️

    • Bashbee91

      Hey guys new to the process looking forward to this new life. 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Bugg

      Hi everyone! I’m brand new here. I just went through all my pre-op requirements per my insurance company and now everything has been submitted and I’m just waiting for final approval and my surgery date. I’ve been doing research, watching YouTube videos, TikTok’s, ect.. trying to prepare my mind and what to expect so I’ll be ready for the surgery. I was so sure and so set and so ready and excited. However, now that I’ve done everything & it’s almost here, I am sooooooo scared! I know why I want it bc I’ve tried everything and I just don’t feel like I can lose weight by myself. I’m tired of being overweight my entire life. I’m miserable, but I keep psyching myself out afraid of GERD bc I know how that can be and I don’t want to have to get a bypass after already gaining the courage to even get VSG. I’m scared of complications like I’mgoing to regret doing it and be depressed that I didn’t just be more disciplined and try again to lose the weight on my own even sitting here typing this knowing in my mind i just can’t and don’t possess the discipline. I’m also afraid I won’t be able to handle the restrictions of the sleeve. What do I eat? I don’t know how to eat healthy really and don’t enjoy healthy food. I don’t know how to do this! I feel so defeated!Someone tell me they felt anything similar to this or am I not ready? I thought I was. I am so tired of being sick and tired and so tired of myself and so tired of being stuck and stuck in this body and somebody different on the outside from what I feel inside. I just want to ball up and cry.
      · 1 reply
      1. stevieoriole

        Am feeling this right now. My surgery date is 4/1. Sign the consent tomorrow. I feel like I overloaded myself with too much info, too many opinions. Got to the point where I was wondering if I should do this. Then I thought of my reasons for taking this step and that settled my nerves. Still get moments of doubt but am striving forward. Am just going to follow my book from the surgeon. Joined this because I was told by my dietician that I should do this for support

    • buildabetteranna

      over 20 lbs down since4 the pre surgery diet and surgery on the 14th
      · 1 reply
      1. Selina333

        Yay!! Congrats. I know how good that feels. 🤩

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×