So sad

[RNsleever715 117]

Omgosh do NOT let him talk you out of it!!! My husband did 6 mos ago and now I'm 20 pounds heavier.... Wishing I would've just listened to my gut and done it then! Thankful I'm doing it now!

[Inner Surfer Girl 12,015]

So after leaving to work and both in that tense moment because of the argument he text me as soon as he gets at work and says, " I'm sorry I couldn't say it to your face but truth is I am really scared of this surgery I don't want to even think something can go wrong I need you in my life and for the first time in my life I am scared me and the kids need you" God I felt so bad I was judging him so quickly I think he is scared and was trying to talk me out of it ... Well I told him I totally understand and that it's a safe procedure and not to worry I am in good hands and thanks for him opening to me.

I think this is probably the biggest reason many loved ones object to surgery.

I am so glad he was able to recognize it and share it with you. I bet he will become your biggest cheerleader!

[2016NewMe 61]

I agree with all you and I felt relieved that he is still supporting me ❤️