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How exciting @@shrinkingkimber! It'll be here before you know it! Which procedure are you having done??

Gastric sleeve! I have inflammatory bowel disease so it's basically my only option since it doesn't involve the bowel. For my BMI a gastric bypass would be ideal but my GI Doctor and surgeon think it could be dangerous since I already have malabsorption issues when my disease is flared.

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Ah! I hate to hear that. My best friend has that and it really does a number on her when it's flared. I'm sure you will do well with the VSG! :)

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I've had the same thing happen to me. I'm finally done. Hallelujah. It has taken me a total of 14 months to get approved. I have Graves' disease. I had to have my thyroid removed, which has caused additional weight gain in trying to regulate the replacement hormone. It has been a very long process, however, in finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. Now I'm waiting for the surgery coordinator to get with me on a surgery date. More waiting.

Being on this app/website has been eye opening. I didn't realize that after the weight loss that it is going to a major struggle to keep the weight off. I'm doing this because I'm tired of struggling. I just hope that it is a REAL success for me. I am committed 100% I'm just scared at this point that I may be a failure and I don't want that.

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I've had the same thing happen to me. I'm finally done. Hallelujah. It has taken me a total of 14 months to get approved. I have Graves' disease. I had to have my thyroid removed, which has caused additional weight gain in trying to regulate the replacement hormone. It has been a very long process, however, in finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. Now I'm waiting for the surgery coordinator to get with me on a surgery date. More waiting.

Being on this app/website has been eye opening. I didn't realize that after the weight loss that it is going to a major struggle to keep the weight off. I'm doing this because I'm tired of struggling. I just hope that it is a REAL success for me. I am committed 100% I'm just scared at this point that I may be a failure and I don't want that.

I totally understand your anxiety zabbakaye. I have the same anxiety. I think most of the people on here have had that worry pre-op. There seems to be quite a bit of caring people here, and I think the support is beyond wonderful. I'm depending on that!

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I share the same fears! But as long as we go into this with the mindset of it ONLY being a tool and we still have to work at it, nutritionally and physically...we have better chances of succeeding long term. Unfortunately, I think that those who have gained their weight back either got too "comfortable" and or thought their surgery was a fix all. And it's not :mellow:

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March 29th is the big day!! So stinkin excited!

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YES YES YES!!!! So stinkin' excited for you!

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Today I went to my 1st Nutrition appointment which was Actually a Class. The class was very informative. I go 3/8 for my 1st one on one Nutrition appointment.

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WHEW! This thread wore me out - I'm sitting on the edge of my seat. I'm so glad you have a date. Good luck to you!

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WHEW! This thread wore me out - I'm sitting on the edge of my seat. I'm so glad you have a date. Good luck to you!

Same here. Lol. It was a real nail biter! I'm glad everything worked out. Woohoooooo!!!!!

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March 29th is the big day!! So stinkin excited!

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Right on !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Had my last appointment with PSYCH today and as soon as I got to work I called the number to initiate final insurance papers!!!!!! I hate waiting for phone calls! I'm so besides myself right now; giddy you might say!

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Woo hoo! Congratulations, @@zabbakaye !!

@@Renkoss you're almost there! Did they say when you could expect to have an answer? Let me know as soon as you hear!

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Unfortunately no; I think they said back when it could take as much as 2 weeks for them to hear back from the insurance. When you have your last appointment, you call a number and it is all voice recorded and asks you for your name, telephone number, and medical record number. I will wait until next Monday before I call and ask what stage we are at. I'm pretty psyched and for sure I'll be here as soon as I know! Thanks!

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