Emotional Cocktail

[jescoto86 5]

Forgive me if this is in the wrong section. I am just wondering if anybody has felt this way. I am getting my surgery February 12th so today was my last doctor's visit before the surgery. Well, when I left the office I couldn't help but to break down and start crying. It was just a cocktail of emotions. I was so grateful. I felt lucky. I felt sad for other people who don't have the opportunity that I have been given. I couldn't believe that my vitals were okay. I have fatty liver and basically it would've just got worse if I hadn't opted for this surgery. This surgery is saving my life. I couldn't stop crying when I got in the car. Anybody else gone through this?

Edited January 27, 2016 by jescoto86

[Energizer 9]

Thank you for your post! I am having a band-to-bypass revision Feb. 11, and am experiencing the same flood of emotions as you described - I just couldn't put it into words. Yes, it is a wonderful thing, to know we are on the road to health. I know there's a lot of work ahead, but I'm ready for the challenge, as I'm sure you are. Good luck to you on the 12th - you'll do just fine!

[SHOTzY* 114]

You are lucky. You are grateful, and you made the decision to save yourself and be healthy! It's okay to cry and let it out ????. Your tears are full of joy, relief, expectations, and some sorrow for others who can't or won't seek this type of life changing medical solution. I've cried. I've felt similar feelings like you. Everyday I'm more acutely aware of the fact that on Feb 8, I'm going to wake up and all things are going to be changed forever. So you just let it all out, girl!! We are listening and you are definitely not alone in all this. Congrats on the Feb 12 date ????

[jescoto86 5]

Thanks so much. Good to know I'm not alone in this one.

[Dub 9,942]

Forgive me if this is in the wrong section. I am just wondering if anybody has felt this way. I am getting my surgery February 12th so today was my last doctor's visit before the surgery. Well, when I left the office I couldn't help but to break down and start crying. It was just a cocktail of emotions. I was so grateful. I felt lucky. I felt sad for other people who don't have the opportunity that I have been given. I couldn't believe that my vitals were okay. I have fatty liver and basically it would've just got worse if I hadn't opted for this surgery. This surgery is saving my life. I couldn't stop crying when I got in the car. Anybody else gone through this?

Gone through that ?

The sense of overwhelming relief ?

Sure have !

I felt that way leading up to surgery.....and immediately post-op and quite often since then.

It is truly a gift. There are times when you may get aggravated with the liquid diet before/after the surgery. Don't worry, though.....it passes. Even at the worst moments I've experienced since surgery....I am very grateful.

[Paula'sVSGLife 49]

I just had a baby 6 months ago so I am an emotional mess anyway haha! The emotions over the WLS hasn't hit me yet... at the moment it still feels surreal. I've been overweight for 29 years, since I was 10.. so the fact I can change that and I don't have to be the fat girl anymore hasn't really sunk in yet.

ETA - my surgery is 29th Feb!

Edited January 31, 2016 by Paula'sVSGLife

[SHOTzY* 114]

I just had a baby 6 months ago so I am an emotional mess anyway haha! The emotions over the WLS hasn't hit me yet... at the moment it still feels surreal. I've been overweight for 29 years, since I was 10.. so the fact I can change that and I don't have to be the fat girl anymore hasn't really sunk in yet.

ETA - my surgery is 29th Feb!

I have been wondering who might end up as the LEAP YEAR surgery person!! ???? congrats to you!! Wow; a baby six months old and an upcoming surgery...man your plate is full and the gravy is dripping off the plate, huh!?!

Hope you have big time support and lots of friends who want to hold and spoil that precious child. I can't imagine that scenario at all, ????as I don't have kids! I have Weenie dogs ????, and they are enough for me to handle each day. Good luck on your journey and hi-de-ho to the munchkin!!

[jantra12 28]

I will probably do the same... I think it is totally normal!!! You have been looking forward to this for so long!!! Good luck!!!

[Paula'sVSGLife 49]

I have been wondering who might end up as the LEAP YEAR surgery person!! ???? congrats to you!! Wow; a baby six months old and an upcoming surgery...man your plate is full and the gravy is dripping off the plate, huh!?!

Hope you have big time support and lots of friends who want to hold and spoil that precious child. I can't imagine that scenario at all, ????as I don't have kids! I have Weenie dogs ????, and they are enough for me to handle each day. Good luck on your journey and hi-de-ho to the munchkin!!

It's all good, she's only 14 lbs and they say no heavy lifting over 25lbs so I will be okay! I get home in time for the weekend so my husband can help for those days and then I will be a week out from surgery and hopefully doing just fine.

[jryan06 2]

My surgery is February 11. I just have this overwhelming sense that it is a bad idea. I don't know why I feel this way. I know this is saving my life and giving me more time with my family. It could just be pre surgery jitters. I have a great surgeon and a wonderful support team. Just can't shake the feeling

[SHOTzY* 114]

It's okay ????; I think everyone gets that ominous feeling. The "what ifs" will definitely overwhelm you if you let them take over.

You have already stated why you are doing this, you have put in all the work and prep, and now have a date. You believe in your surgeon and you have good people surrounding you! When the bad feelings come, answer them with the facts-even it is constant! You are about to be given the wonderful tool that used correctly, will change your life and make you the happiest person!! It's right there at your feet, just waiting for you to "walk through the door", so to speak ????

In sending good thoughts your way!! And I know all your support people are doing the same. Best of luck!!