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So, we are going to a theater performance soon and I need something to wear besides a maxi skirt or jeans! :P

Borrowed 2 dresses so I didn't have to buy one. They both fit, and both look okay. Asked my daughter for her thoughts on which I should wear & got the standard "Either one, they are both nice" response! ARGH!!! I think part of the problem is that I still don't see *ME* as I am now when I look in the mirror. I know they both are nice, but which do YOU like better!?!?!?

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definitely the second one! They are both beautiful but that second one is really figure flattering. Trust me, I'm an artist! :P

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The dresses don't make you, you make the dresses.

Congratulations on your weight loss.

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Black and white. It gives you more definition!

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The black and white one

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Black and White, looks amazing!!! You've done the work, show it off!!!

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love them both - but I think I'd go with the black & white one

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This... it's a much more eloquent way to state my initial male reaction which would have been to go with the black/white because your curves are kicking.

Black and white. It gives you more definition!

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I say black and white one.

I'm in the same boat as you... I still don't see "me" I see what I used to look like. Weird isn't it :)

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Black and white! Both are cute and you look great in both, but the black and white is extremely flattering, as others have also pointed out.

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They are both adorable. And, as much as I love the style of the first one, I'd go with the black and white one!

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black and white! the color definition in it really accents your slim shape!

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I like them both.The black and white for theatre.The lace with jersey is more formal .You look great in both.

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