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"Gee you're fat!"

@@usedtobeaskater

are you kidding me

how can i person be so mean, stupid, ignorant, -----flll in the blanks

@@Valentina - i laughed out loud as i was reading your comments

did you hear me? ;)

OP made great comments/suggestions what you could have said, done

if it were me, i just would stare in disbelief, and walk away (upset)

wouldn't know what to say

i would think of smart asss things to say

AFTER i left her!!!!!! too late then

if this happens again about any subject

i would use one of great comments above

i have said in the past

"Why would you say such a thing

then walked away!!!"

sometimes people do open their big mouths

say a cruel remark without realizing what they are saying

ignorance is bliss - NOT!! :angry:

sorry you heard that stupid, insensitive remark

always one in a crowd

keep feeling good about yourself

you are doing great

you are aces!!!

keep up the fantastic job

i know you will

kathy

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So I am feeling great about myself. Working out hard, eating what I am supposed to, no cheating, and thinking I am looking good after 3 months post op and down 50 lbs since surgery

AND THEN...... I just got back from a wake and my husband and I ran into someone and the first comments out of her mouth to my husband she says "You look great!" To Me "Gee you're fat!" REALLY????!!!! That is not okay.

I am not a mean person, I just do not have it in me but I wanted to say "Ya, I'm fat but you're ugly inside and out and I am losing weight! What are you going to do?" But I didn't.

I have not wanted to cry in a long time and I feel like I was kicked in the stomach. Why are people so mean and say things like that?

My husband says to let it go and ignore her and I am trying but darn it that hurt! Like I don't know I am fat!

I will overcome this but I'm mad! :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry:

Does she want to f*ck ur man? Sounds a little weird to me. Like shes tryna build his confidence but crush yours. Watch out for her.

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So I am feeling great about myself. Working out hard, eating what I am supposed to, no cheating, and thinking I am looking good after 3 months post op and down 50 lbs since surgery

I am not a mean person, I just do not have it in me but I wanted to say "Ya, I'm fat but you're ugly inside and out and I am losing weight! What are you going to do?" But I didn't.I will overcome this but I'm mad! :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry:

Your first two sentences are the truth. The up side is what you shouted on the inside: That hag has to go through life being herself, deservedly so. I'm not mean either [one hopes], but on an even brighter side, maybe she's a real-life Sophia from "Golden Girls" -- brain damage burned out her inner censor and sense.

Let's kick her in the shins.

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