Rough night

[jembell01 129]

This has nothing to do with my surgery, but I just needed to vent and I have no one else to talk to...

My husband has been picking fights with me all day today. It was my first week back at work and I was just looking forward to enjoying the weekend with him and the kids. He blew up on me because I asked him why he's picking fights with me. Now I'm just sitting here crying and normally I would go take some food into the room and watch a movie alone or something, but I can't do that. I'm just kind of ????????...

We don't fight much at all and this week has been so great & even earlier today was awesome with him so I don't know what's going on...just sad.

[Josey Quinn 187]

(((HUGS))) I'm sorry it's been such a hard day.

[jembell01 129]

(((HUGS))) I'm sorry it's been such a hard day.

Thanks Josey. It's just so unlike him to do this and so out of the blue. I made plans for our family to go to a private concert at a friends house. When I told my husband about the plans earlier this week, he did NOT want to go..at all. Turns out I can't go now because our son has a band clinic all weekend and I have to be here to take him and pick him up. The concert is an overnight stay, 2 hours away from here. Now all of the sudden my husband wants to go, but by himself. He started picking at me saying "wonder what I should wear",etc. I asked him if he was really going to go without us. He acted like I was trying to control him and never let him do anything. I'm just confused because he was mad because he didn't want to go in the first place, but now that me and the kids can't go, he HAS to go.

Now I'm getting mad as I type this out ????

[rking 484]

I'm sorry . Husbands can be such pains in the a$$.