I feel helpless and stuck..

[allyrenee 10]

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Edited January 2, 2016 by allyrenee11

[Kindle 8,667]

Um, I don't see where the problem is. Break up with him and kick him out. Why in Gods name would you let him stay if he treats you like crap? He's not your responsibility. He can find somewhere else to live. Crash on a friend's couch if he has to. Mooch off someone else for awhile. Go to a homeless shelter, whatever. I've broken up with three live in boyfriends, although none of them treated me bad. It's just life. It happens. Once I had to move, once he had to move and once we both had to move since we were in an apt and neither could afford the rent alone. And with him treating you the way he does, I wouldn't wait even one more day.

[CowgirlJane 14,260]

@ I missed your original post so can only guess what you shared, but I am sentimental and even relationships I want to end are terribly difficult for me. I think for me some of it is just my inherent personality...I feel deeply and once I feel a bond to a person, animal or situation...leaving it is hard.

Good luck to you.

[WLSResources/ClothingExch 3,444]

@, I, too, obviously missed your message. You may not come back to read this, but I'll say it anyway.

If the issue is that you love this person, love isn't enough. You want someone who loves you back in a loving, productive, partner-like way. Love is supposed to feel good, make us happier, make our lives fuller. Sometimes alone is better.

Edited January 2, 2016 by WLSResources/ClothingExch