tabby_morgan 33 Posted January 4, 2016 Tabby - have you read about Bariatric Divorce? It is common enough that there is a Google searchable term for this phenomenon. What you describe in your initial post is sending up red flags. When both halves of a couple started heavy, and one gets bariatric surgery, 80% of the time things fall apart. See. A. Therapist. Together. Seriously, it happened to me in my first marriage.... You and hubby need to come to an understanding, and he needs to see this for the opportunity it is to get the FAMILY healthy. Yeah, I have most definitely heard of bariatric divorce. The good thing is, he will be having surgery soon, so hopefully we can share this experience better. At least then he can empathize with me. If things don't improve we will definitely see a therapist! Thank you! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emilie.Lancaster 189 Posted January 4, 2016 Awesome. Glad to hear it. My current husband had lap band years ago, and I have the most awesome support in him. It is so true that you need someone who groks the situation to the bone. I wish you peace and blessings. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MissMac2 18 Posted January 5, 2016 Per jintycb's comment #14.........I love men, but they are hard to train. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
