Inner Surfer Girl 12,015 Posted November 4, 2015 I agree with @NewNewMe. I also think the converse is true. If you are still here and seeking help then you aren't a failure. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nikkydizzle 49 Posted November 8, 2015 I had my surgery 4th October 2014 and I have just lost 92 pounds I felt like a failure but I knew I was not doing what I was told to do. I stopped exercising drinking a lot of alcohol eating badly not that I could eat a lot anyway and stalled for a while. I see people who had surgery the same time as me losing over 100 pounds so I PICKED MYSELF UP DUSTED MYSELF OFF AND STARTED ALL OVER AGAIN. I went back to walking stopped drinking taking my meds and I lost 13.2 pounds in a month still eating carbs. Don't worry don't be discouraged just go on your journey at your own pace. THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN CHANGE THIS SITUATION IS YOU!!!!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites