Older Women who Love Younger Men..Is it time for that?

[green 6]

My husband is 9 years younger than I am. We have been together for over 20 years and we have a good relationship. He often tells me that he loves me, he is an open-hearted and generous man, and he does do some of the housework. We make a point of spending a lot of time together, going out to restaurants for Breakfast or lunch on a fairly frequent basis. I figure that I am very lucky.

One of my aunts married a man who was 11 years younger than herself and they were together until the day he died.

Some men may find the notion of having an older wife to be repulsive but many other men are cool with this. Some women are crazy about older men. Others find them kinda creepy. Such romantic decisions are inevitably made on a whatever floats your boat basis. What does make a relationship work has little to do with the age of the partners but everything to do with compatibility, love, care, and hard work.

[000000000 0]

Hi

I am 50 but look and act about 38. So I feel more comfortable with ladies in their 30's & 40's. Some people look and act their age some do not! So whatever happens , happens.

Age is not important, Its your attitude, your lifestyle, and your sex drive.

:eyebrows:

[Lee4love1 0]

Mr Yo, thank you so much for your openess. Age is not a big thing for me either. But there are people who treat it as such. We must ask why are the people in the poorer nations are dealing with the openess too. They seem to not let age get in their way when in Love. Many realize how short life can be--then throwing in age--it's going to be crazy. I seem to enjoy two sides of the coin. I like the ladies who are in their 30's-40's and a few who are now 52 to 60. (Very few in the mid twenties--but there are exceptions) Strange--huh??? But age matters not--if we all wait and see--the same age we place stop signs in front of--will be the same age we'll be one day. Then possibly having a crush on someone younger. Is the time for Older Women and Younger Men being together? I say---YES-!!! It doesn't really matter...LOVE is the Key:help:

[Esmeralda 2]

By the way I am now officially SEPERATED, I don't now if its an age thing but I have had an older and a younger man and it didnt work out (maybe its me???), anyways I am officially single again and I hope it stays like this for a long time. Also I am in need of friends to talk to or even to go out, any volenteers????

[Darragha 0]

another Woman 36 who as with a Man who is 24..

Goodness, I hope so! In the book I'm writing right now (write now?) the heroine is 36 and the hero is 24.

And in my book coming out in October, the heroine is 26 and the anti-hero (not quite the villain) is 18!

Of course in my 9/17 release (2 days before my lapband surgery!), the heroine was born in 1864 and is over a hundred years older than the hero.

Darr

[Josette 2]

I'm 32 and my husband is 27. I'm about ready to choke the hell out of him. We're pretty close to seperation because I can't take it anymore. We're in couples therapy right now. I'd like to say it's the age but I have a guy friend who's the same age and is so mature.

I do think that I'll be cautious about getting into another relationship with a younger man if my marriage ends.

[Kat817 19]

I believe age is all mind over matter...if you don't mind, it don't matter.

It is all individual....I have a 9 year old nephew more mature than my 45 year old brother---go figure!

Kat

[valzie 0]

As my great aunt once said :Ive had enough man for a lifetime" I can relate totally!

Val

[green 6]

I am 58 and my husband is 49. He is a very attractive man. We have been together for over 22 years now. One man's fish is another man's poison. C'est la vie. Jouissons!

[Kelliebelly 13]

My Dh is 16 yrs older than me. I was 23 and he was 39 when we got together.

Age has never come into it..and rarely does it come into it when the guy is older.

Ohhhh but the goss and talk when an older woman gets with a younger man.

Age is just a number, your only as old as the woman/man you feel.

[pammycakes 1]

I am 38 and my boyfriend is 25. We have been together a year now and living together for 6 months. He is more mature than men I have dated who were my age or older. When we first started talking I never would have imagined it growing into what we have today. But I can honestly say that he is my best friend, there is nothing we can't talk about. It is because of him that I came to the decision to get the lap band. I want to be healthy so that I have many many years to spend with him.

[Mandyw 0]

I really think it is a maturity issue and not an age issue. I'm 32 and my hubby is 28. When we got together I had an 11 month old and a 2 year old from a previous marriage, and we now have a son together. So, 3 kids now ages 3, 5, and 7. He's fantastic. Not perfect, he's a bit on the lazy side as well. He's a great husband and father. How many men do you know at age 23 would take on an older women with 2 kids? Don't let the age scare you off, it's truly about personality and maturity.

[adorable 1]

I'm 41 and my hubby just turned 30. We've been together for 4 1/2 yrs and I wouldn't trade him for the world! I was in my first marriage for 14 yrs and it was a mess from the beginning. My ex is 43 and much more immature than my 30 yr old hubby.

My new hubby is very mature, although he is a computer guy and a little on the lazy side (spends a ton of time online working and playing Star War Galaxies lol, but I'd rather have him there than in a titty bar with his buddies!).

Anyway, I'm so young at heart, and I look a bit younger than I am, so we have a lot in common and we get along great...plus the sex is awesome

[Mandyw 0]

adorable, your hubby sounds like mine. Spends too much time on the computer with work and games, but great sex!

[DerickM 1]

I am getting a sudden urge to start playing "Stacy's Mom" while reading this thread