OKCPirate 5,323 Posted October 11, 2015 The way things are progressing with the lovely Miss Noel, my time on Match.com will hopefully be coming to an end soon. But I don't know why I didn't think about this earlier...There has been discussion about creating a dating site for WLS people, well why not just share a link to your dating site profile here. Mine is: http://www.match.com/Profile/Display/About/?lid=450&uid=VF5xK49Gklufqiad26V30w== At least by looking at others you might get an idea on how to improve your own. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Daveo 485 Posted October 11, 2015 Thanks for sharing, it does give me some tips on what I should put on mine! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bellabloom 2,467 Posted October 12, 2015 The way things are progressing with the lovely Miss Noel, my time on Match.com will hopefully be coming to an end soon. But I don't know why I didn't think about this earlier...There has been discussion about creating a dating site for WLS people, well why not just share a link to your dating site profile here. Mine is: http://www.match.com/Profile/Display/About/?lid=450&uid=VF5xK49Gklufqiad26V30w== At least by looking at others you might get an idea on how to improve your own. How did you link it? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OKCPirate 5,323 Posted October 12, 2015 @@bellabloom - on Match, where your picture is, go to "view edit" and then go "your public view" and copy the link Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CowgirlJane 14,260 Posted October 12, 2015 I am not a match member, so the link didn't work for me. I saved some of the text of previous profiles, and I worked hard to paint the right tone to be clear without being too detailed - but as I indicated elsewhere, it is the photos more than the text it seems... I think I could write "crazy mean woman who will ruin your life" and still get the same number of emails from the ridiculous as long as my photos were good - ha! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bellabloom 2,467 Posted October 12, 2015 I am not a match member, so the link didn't work for me. I saved some of the text of previous profiles, and I worked hard to paint the right tone to be clear without being too detailed - but as I indicated elsewhere, it is the photos more than the text it seems... I think I could write "crazy mean woman who will ruin your life" and still get the same number of emails from the ridiculous as long as my photos were good - ha! You're so funny!!!!! Hahahahahahaha Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
parisshel 1,892 Posted October 12, 2015 @CowgirlJane: I think what you've written is so very true. For men, you can be completely psycho but as long as you are pretty, they'll put up with it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OKCPirate 5,323 Posted October 12, 2015 @@parisshel - this is actually a very scientific point of how hot a woman is and how much crazy you can put up with: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
parisshel 1,892 Posted October 12, 2015 @OKCPirate: Yes. I've seen (or been sent) that. It's hilarious! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KeepCalm 223 Posted October 12, 2015 I was a match.com member, but when I got the free six month sub - I transferred it over to a friend of mine who was ready to start dating... I'll probably get it back after surgery and start up again, we'll see how things go. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CowgirlJane 14,260 Posted October 13, 2015 This sounds really really awful.... but I wish there were enough hot guys in my age range to warrant a crazy hot chart. Sigh @@parisshel - this is actually a very scientific point of how hot a woman is and how much crazy you can put up with: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bellabloom 2,467 Posted October 13, 2015 I've gotten online dumped by three guys this week for not being Christian. Sigh. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OKCPirate 5,323 Posted October 13, 2015 @bellabloom...heathen;-) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RedJoy86 6 Posted October 13, 2015 @@bellabloom That sucks! I'm sorry to hear that! I know that there are several places for "specific types" and I think we all kinda wish that folks with limits to dating (such as "I won't date you if you're not Christian") would go there... I haven't started online dating again, I think that I'm going to wait a little bit until I'm a bit skinnier and currently I still have a bit to go, but I am planning on approaching it like this: it will be a litmus test for how I am at conversation, one-on-one confidence, activities, and impressing others. Don't get me wrong, I really hope to meet someone who I can settle down with, but I know that I'm going to be shot down several times before I get picked up. Each time I hope to learn a little more about myself. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
scubav85 110 Posted October 13, 2015 I'll see if I can get a link to my profile on there Share this post Link to post Share on other sites