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Has anyone else had there husband be ....well less than supportive. Heck he seems to be down right mad! He has almost broyght me to tears many times over my weight and now I'm going about it the wrong way after gaining another 45# on meds. I am doing this for my health and my kids. But it's scary enough going to Mexico alone....seems like I'll be alone when I get home too.

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There are actually many who have the issue. I'm not sure if there is a married forum that might be able to unite you with others. You can also do a search on the forum and see if someone else has had this problem.

I'm sorry.

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It's unfortunate that you husband is an asshole about it !

I did schedule mine ahead of my wife's because she was scare !

I did on 10/26 and she's going on 11/16, she's seeing what I'm going thru and is helping her.

He doesn't deserve you, but, put all behind, be strong, stay the course !!!

You can do it !!!!!!

Stay strong !!!!

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Thank you I really appreciate that. Its funny I had quit smoking a month early and he was continuing to smoke like right in front of me and then I found out that my blood pressure was really high and my heart rate so I wanted to get cardiac clearance here in the United States. So I started smoking again and quit taking Chantix and my blood pressure went down to normal but my heart rate didn't so I'll find out on Tuesday if I am healthy enough for surgery and I'll have to reschedule for December or January and now that I bought a car last night. I've been really super bummed about starting smoking again and just my whole plan and getting thrown off I feel like I'm back in the same but I was in previously when he left me

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