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So after 7 weeks of tests and running around getting paperwork and hounding my consultant I've finally been approved...

My sister had her sleeve done back In March and lost 80 lbs...I was very supportive but now that it's my turn she literally told me not to throw my big clothes away because I might gain it back,leaving me feeling like I shouldn't get excited...

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Rude. Sounds like she might be jealous you will lose more? Do it for you not her and ignore the haters.

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If your sister's surgery was so successful, losing 80 lbs, I wonder why she would be so rude about it? Has she gained any of the weight back? It has worked for her, so why wouldn't she think it would for you? I bet it is a bit of jealousy.

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I think she is projecting her own fears onto you.

Or as I have seen in a few clients of mine, people may lose the weight but there is still an insecure fat girl inside and that's how she is expressing it.

Just some thoughts based on the 3 sentences provided lol.

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Jeez Louise!

I'd say your sister is going through some rough times right now as a WLS patient. And also acting b**chy, too.

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