treblecutie23 318 Posted September 27, 2015 Just be yourself and have confidence! The right one comes around when you least expect it and will love you for YOU....not how awesome of a selfie you can take. ((We all know selfies are lame no matter how hot you look in them!)) Don't overthink things. Go with the flow and have fun. I also went to FSU! Go Noles! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blu2020 79 Posted September 27, 2015 Just be yourself and have confidence! The right one comes around when you least expect it and will love you for YOU....not how awesome of a selfie you can take. ((We all know selfies are lame no matter how hot you look in them!)) Don't overthink things. Go with the flow and have fun. I also went to FSU! Go Noles! NOLE girls know best! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sgc 538 Posted September 27, 2015 It's not the quality of pic but just the size. I like how we were able to talk before seeing each other. Hopefully that will help her look past my size. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
treblecutie23 318 Posted September 27, 2015 All you can do is hope. Not to be a cheerleader for your case....but you are working your ass off (literally) trying to make yourself a healthier person. The right girl will see that and appreciate and support you for what you're going through and help you along the way. Think cardio dates, long walks and cooking healthy meals together! What better way to burn calories then with someone you love!? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stuart85 28 Posted September 27, 2015 All you can do is hope. Not to be a cheerleader for your case....but you are working your ass off (literally) trying to make yourself a healthier person. The right girl will see that and appreciate and support you for what you're going through and help you along the way. Think cardio dates, long walks and cooking healthy meals together! What better way to burn calories then with someone you love!? I don't think he's had the surgery... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blu2020 79 Posted September 27, 2015 Stop focusing on her, you might not like her. Pictures are seriously deceiving!!! I promise it's not a big deal. Go balls to walls man Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
treblecutie23 318 Posted September 27, 2015 I know I know......but taking steps in the right direction. Diet...exercise....mental trying to get your head right....deserves kudos no matter what stage we fall in. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blu2020 79 Posted September 27, 2015 I haven't yet - get a date next week. But hell my weight doesn't make me hide... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
treblecutie23 318 Posted September 27, 2015 I haven't yet - get a date next week. But hell my weight doesn't make me hide... Same same. No reason to hide. My dates November 10th! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blu2020 79 Posted September 27, 2015 Good luckkkk - Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sgc 538 Posted September 27, 2015 I don't have a weight loss date. I've thought about surgery but I have lost 45 pounds in about 9 weeks so I want to see if I can lose without surgery. If I need it I will get it. I gained 200 pounds in five years. I never really had to deal with this sort of obesity and I'm struggling with my body image. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sgc 538 Posted September 27, 2015 I ended up uploading my picture to my profile here. I also uploaded what I looked like before. Not going to show her the previous me. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sgc 538 Posted September 29, 2015 Seems like our conversation fizzled out before pictures were exchanged. We went from emails to texting and it seemed to go downhill. I get the feeling she was hiding something. One of the red flags was that her area code didn't match the city se supposedly lived in. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Daveo 485 Posted September 29, 2015 Area codes don't matter, sometimes people don't want to change their number when they move. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
