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My nose is one of the few things that isn't large on me so I'm good there.

I really like the way the conversation is progressing with this girl. Don't want to get ahead of myself. Going to get my hair trimmed and some better fitting clothes. Even if it doesn't work out I'll still need the clothes.

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I think we are going to exchange pictures soon. This is the moment I am most nervous about. Our conversations have been going exceptionally well. She likes my corny jokes and there has been a little flirting via email. What should I say about her picture? I would want to tell her she is attractive but not sound like a sexual deviant or that I'm trying to put the moves on her. I'm also worried about sending my pic. I keep wanting to preface it with something.

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I thought Jews went to UF?

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I don't respond to men's photos. I never know what to say, photos are deceiving as well. Remember she might not be good enough for you, you aren't shopping for pants and willing to buy the pair that fits. You drawn the best!!!! Keep that in mind.

The nice Jewish girls go to UF I went to FSU Hahahaha ????

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Hahaha. Hahaha. My brother went to UF. Went to a few games, it was the Tebow days when they regularly dominated FSU

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When you send your pic send one while you are doing something... Like with a bunch of friends cheering on Fsu ( best team ever).

That's the problem. I never liked having my picture taken so I don't have a picture like that. I also don't have many friends.

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When you send your pic send one while you are doing something... Like with a bunch of friends cheering on Fsu ( best team ever).

That's the problem. I never liked having my picture taken so I don't have a picture like that. I also don't have many friends.

Post some on here and we can judge the best one. We are in the same boat, well, close, not exactly. But after losing 76 pounds so far I'm a lot more willing to put myself out there, not ready to go on match or jdate yet but maybe at 100 I will be. I walk around the gym locker room now without a shirt on, I wouldn't do that at 485

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When you send your pic send one while you are doing something... Like with a bunch of friends cheering on Fsu ( best team ever).

That's the problem. I never liked having my picture taken so I don't have a picture like that. I also don't have many friends.
Post some on here and we can judge the best one. We are in the same boat, well, close, not exactly. But after losing 76 pounds so far I'm a lot more willing to put myself out there, not ready to go on match or jdate yet but maybe at 100 I will be. I walk around the gym locker room now without a shirt on, I wouldn't do that at 485
That's the thing. I only have one pic of myself I took myself.

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When you send your pic send one while you are doing something... Like with a bunch of friends cheering on Fsu ( best team ever).

That's the problem. I never liked having my picture taken so I don't have a picture like that. I also don't have many friends.
Post some on here and we can judge the best one. We are in the same boat, well, close, not exactly. But after losing 76 pounds so far I'm a lot more willing to put myself out there, not ready to go on match or jdate yet but maybe at 100 I will be. I walk around the gym locker room now without a shirt on, I wouldn't do that at 485
That's the thing. I only have one pic of myself I took myself.

bro, take some more, like that one person said i think blu go pretend to do something, i've never been a fan of group pictures, you are going to have to do it sooner or later may as well get judged by a bunch of fatties and ex-fatties first to weed out the bad pictures, personally i don't think i photograph well either but that's because i used to feel like shamu on land

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You are welcomed to post one and I will tell you honest truth if you want!!! It's really all in your head right with the pic... Remember own it, you are who you are and owe no apologizes.

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