How can I get my family in my corner?

[Mountaingal 322]

So very happy for you that you finally had the surgery. Perhaps your family not only understand a little better now about the surgery but understand that this will greatly decrease your chances of their losing you. The shock of your cousin's death at such a young age and with a big family to be raised would affect most people. Heal well and fast and glad you are on the losers bench.