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My Husband, My Rock, My Support



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Over the years I've called him other things, for sure.

My husband loves big women, he never once said I looked bad or should lose weight. He does agree that health is at the forefront, so weight lose is paramount.

I had my surgery on September 9th and he has not left my side once. He is my rock and my primary cheerleader. He tells me several times a day how well I'm doing and always encourages me.

Now there are the messes in the kitchen, OMG, and the smelly dog, OMG. And he loves to sleep in, but with everything going on, he is by my side and rubs my back.

My husband, My Rock, My support.

Thank you baby.

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My husband, My Rock, My support.

@@magicalwoman

he's a keeper :rolleyes:

wonderful to have your husband be there thru thick and thin

good luck

kathy

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My husband.... tries. He's moved into more of the care giver role since my spinal injury but I still do most things. He's mostly afraid I'm not going to cook him any food for 6 months lol.

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Awwww that's so sweet. I'm glad you have such a supportive guy! Make sure he knows how much you appreciate him ;)

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That's so fantastic. Having that type of support is so incredibly helpful!!

My husband is very similar. Never has he told me I'm fat or to lose weight. But health is important - and he wants me healthy so we have 50 more years together. We own a baking business on the side and he's already been prepped on what cakes he needs to carve/decorate while I'm recovering. All this while still protecting & serving as a Police Sergeant at night. I know that once my surgery is over, he'll be the biggest cheerleader in my corner. I couldn't imagine going through this alone.

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My husband is my biggest cheerleader and biggest critic he only wants what's best for us

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My husband as well he reminds me to look at the big picture when I was depressed

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