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Can we just stop with the metaphors because my brain hurts trying to figure this all out, lol. Although the coffee metaphor is cute.

We are all adults here. Is your question will he want to have sex with you more after you've lost all the weight?

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So many lines...
So few appropriate...

Kinda...

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No, really. What's your question? I didn't mean to offend you, I'm just not smart enough to figure out what you were trying to ask...

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Silly me. I clicked on this bc I think coffee may be my transfer addiction. Man I feel old. And clueless.

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@@jane13

I just don't know anymore....

Troll or over sensitive. You be the judge!

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Embarrassed?

Value your personal privacy?

But you still need information and feedback?

That's why many here (like you) are here using nicknames.

And that's why you should just ask your question straight up. There's no way in the world (with @ as a nickname) that your comments could be traced back to you.

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@ - I am sorry if you I was directing the Old and clueless to @@alilove2631 and @@Babbs thought you were referring to being intimate.

I am sorry but I cannot read in between in the lines and don't correlate "coffee" into anything other than...coffee. like Babbs said, my head hurts. that's where the I don't care part came from - I only want to possibly help :D

We have had trolls on here and their posts have vague statements (metaphors) like the one you used in the subject line.

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What does "coffee" mean? I clicked on this topic because I was having my 3rd cup of coffee in 5 months and feeling guilty. Guess I mis-clicked?

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I think this is a troll....

Even if it's not, I'm thinking....if you can't say the word SEX, maybe you shouldn't be having it. FFS...yes, I said that.

While on the subject, as soon as my blood sugars got normal, my sex drive increased dramatically, in a positive, 'I want it now, and often' kind of way. Thank The Universe!! I'm not ashamed or embarrassed to talk about sex, it is something that is normal, human, and ok to do in this world. I'm not sorry for my bluntness, I'm just astounded...if you can't even say the word, sex, how does someone actually manage to have sex?

Feeding the trolls only makes them come back for more. They live to get others flustered and upset. Unfortunately trolls are part of being a part of the internet. The key is recognizing them early, and ignoring them. I've seen some posts go on for pages and pages with trolls....and believe me, they are loving every minute of attention people give them.

My opinion doesn't have to be your truth.

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I heart you so much :)

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I should have quoted her post when I asked her to clarify so maybe some of you could have deciphered it for me.

Something about a friend liking "coffee" and now they don't like it much anymore...she still likes coffee but the mug is a little broken and maybe the friend doesn't want a broken mug?

I dunno. Too much thinking trying to figure it all out. And then she got mad and deleted her post when I asked what the darn question was so we can help her for goodness sakes!

Can't win sometimes.....

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@@Babbs omg you make me laugh so hard. :) Keep up the fine work, we need you here!

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