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I am having a tough time always being offended by my husbands comments. I know he means well, but it hurts my feelings. A lot of you "can't eat that" and guilts me into feeling bad that I'm still struggling with things. I had my surgery a month ago and just now get to finally eat real foods. But staying away from breads and other things is getting tougher by day. I guess I just need some support.

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I am sorry that you are feeling that way. I have one of them insensitive husband's too. He don't realize how much his words hurt. I am scheduled to have my sleeve on September 9 my biggest fear is how my husband is going to be. but stay strong you have support it may not be right next to you and it may take us a while to respond but we support u all the way

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If you eat bead and 'things' and he sits back and says nothing, is that the kind of support you want and need?

I don't know your relationship, so I could be totally wrong but maybe hes just giving you out a little 'tough love'. Could that be the case?

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Talk to him. I'm sure your husband is just looking out for your best interests...but if you're upset enough to post this then communicate that to him. Regarding the bread...you are going to get some tough love from us too!!!

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