Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Recommended Posts

@@Running2theSleeve, @amylovesparis and anyone else, I would be happy to be a buddy. Though I have a supportive family, I am the only family member who has struggled with obesity. Yes they are supportive, but do not understand. Hang in there. YOU ARE NOT ALONE

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I would love to have some buddies! I even posted how I have little support! My mom nor sisters understand (they have never weighed over 150)

I just really got my 3 babies and 3 more iffy' s now.

But imma do this! It helps having this forum! My mind is so consumed with getting this surgery now and it's sad when you have no one to really talk to.

I'm at the end stages of my pre op testing and looking forward to a Sept/Oct date.

Good for you!! I am in the same boat:)
I have found that there is plenty of support here..good luck to you

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Hi all. I to need friends. Should we all email each other separate or in group?

Im in Canada with little support.

My email address is leawar0117@hotmail.com

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Tina I can totally relate. My mom becomes instantly INFURIATED if the topic of surgery is brought up. I decided to bring a friend/therapist with me because I knew she could provide the positivity I need during the pre and post op. Cheers to new friendships! :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

New to this ... Had my first appointment on the 16th ... And I too am looking for friends that are on this journey! My best friend and brother know and they're very supportive.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I am in southern California, but originally from NY. 8/3 that's the day, getting s nervous, excited, scared, I guess we all get these different emotions. Good luck to everyone, hope we all do well, Sue

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I'm from NY but you or anyone can feel free to add me as a friend. If you have any questions please email me

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Tina I can totally relate. My mom becomes instantly INFURIATED if the topic of surgery is brought up. I decided to bring a friend/therapist with me because I knew she could provide the positivity I need during the pre and post op. Cheers to new friendships! :)

Trust me if there is anything ive learned since ive had my surgery is being around positive people it helps u get through tough times im here if at anytime u wanna talk

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Tina I can totally relate. My mom becomes instantly INFURIATED if the topic of surgery is brought up. I decided to bring a friend/therapist with me because I knew she could provide the positivity I need during the pre and post op. Cheers to new friendships! :)

my mom doesn't get mad, her new mission is to find me a trainer to " fix my problem"... so frustrating!!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I am in nj too and would like a buddy or buddies.

I too reside in NJ, I'm here If ever you need to talk

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Why Everybody else diet starts 1- 2 weeks before surgery. The hospital I'm going to ask to go on liquid diet 2 days before surgery

Every hospital has different guideline. I was sleeve at NYP on 5/29/15 and did a 2 week diet prior to surgery

Hi all, upper Manhattan here. 7 weeks post op. I was sleeved 5/29/15 at NY Presbyterian.

SW 305

CW 232

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Definitely agree yes every hospital and every doctor is different. For example my pre-opt liquid diet was only 24 hours before surgery.

Edited by Chris-NYC

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Hi! I'm new here. I was sleeved June 22nd this yr. I'm in south Florida. New vsg friends are welcome! ????

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Bashbee91

      Hey guys new to the process looking forward to this new life. 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Bugg

      Hi everyone! I’m brand new here. I just went through all my pre-op requirements per my insurance company and now everything has been submitted and I’m just waiting for final approval and my surgery date. I’ve been doing research, watching YouTube videos, TikTok’s, ect.. trying to prepare my mind and what to expect so I’ll be ready for the surgery. I was so sure and so set and so ready and excited. However, now that I’ve done everything & it’s almost here, I am sooooooo scared! I know why I want it bc I’ve tried everything and I just don’t feel like I can lose weight by myself. I’m tired of being overweight my entire life. I’m miserable, but I keep psyching myself out afraid of GERD bc I know how that can be and I don’t want to have to get a bypass after already gaining the courage to even get VSG. I’m scared of complications like I’mgoing to regret doing it and be depressed that I didn’t just be more disciplined and try again to lose the weight on my own even sitting here typing this knowing in my mind i just can’t and don’t possess the discipline. I’m also afraid I won’t be able to handle the restrictions of the sleeve. What do I eat? I don’t know how to eat healthy really and don’t enjoy healthy food. I don’t know how to do this! I feel so defeated!Someone tell me they felt anything similar to this or am I not ready? I thought I was. I am so tired of being sick and tired and so tired of myself and so tired of being stuck and stuck in this body and somebody different on the outside from what I feel inside. I just want to ball up and cry.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • buildabetteranna

      over 20 lbs down since4 the pre surgery diet and surgery on the 14th
      · 1 reply
      1. Selina333

        Yay!! Congrats. I know how good that feels. 🤩

    • Jenopolis

      Had a sleeve in 2017, lost over 100 pounds. Had a DS surgery this year (2025) for more sustainable weight loss. 🤞
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • buildabetteranna

      The 14th was my day. I am home and recovery is going pretty smooth. They even let me walk out of the hospital. Picture of me in recovery curtesy of my boyfriend lol. 

      · 3 replies
      1. DaisyChainOz

        Glad it went well!! Wishing you a speedy recovery and wonderful success!! 🤗

      2. buildabetteranna

        Thank you ❤️

      3. Selina333

        Neat you have a pic of this day! I was sooo happy to get my surgery. It was well worth it! And I'm not even near my goal. I had surgery Dec. 2!

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×