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I am thrilled beyond measure! As of yesterday's weigh in I am no longer obese! I never thought I would be so happy to be "overweight" in my entire life! But I have been obese for ATLEAST the past 10 years. We get so used to how we look/feel we can almost forget how it was before. Two weeks ago we lost my mil to ovarian cancer (btw KNOW THE SYMPTOMS) at the family gathering after the funeral last week a family member I have never met cornered me and said the nicest thing. She said "I was looking at your wedding pictures downstairs (I was larger when I got married) and you were beautiful." (At this point I'm wondering what is coming) Then she says "I mean you WERE beautiful then but now.........now you are so much MORE beautiful." It was such a wonderful compliment and really brightened my mood on a very sad day. Now to continue on until I am a "normal" weight!!!

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Congrats on being overweight!!! I Celebrate your milestone for the hard work and dedication it involved.

But I am so sorry to hear about your MIL's death. {{Hugs}}

You ARE beautiful, and always were.

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"Then she says "I mean you WERE beautiful then but now.........now you are so much MORE beautiful." It was such a wonderful compliment and really brightened my mood on a very sad day. Now to continue on until I am a "normal" weight!!!"

Loved this. Congratulations @2bullymom Keep on dropping that weight !!

Hugs

Kate

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Thanks guys! The compliment was amazing and oh so sweet. Thank you for the condolences. She was an amazing woman, she was so in to fitness her entire life. I hope to drop all the weight and get fit not only for me but to honor her.

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