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I came across this site looking for some sort of support. I had rny gastric bypass on 6/10 so I'm fairly new to this. Looking for someone to bounce ideas off of and share experiences about our WLS Journey. Don't have to be close by to text each other. I love to be positive and try to motivate those around me and i do believe sharing and learning from peers will help a great deal. Anyone out there? Lol.

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Hi there, I remember those days like they were yesterday. I am 7 years post op and would be happy to correspond with you about all of this. I needed a big support team when I first started, its a lot to handle and take on. Feel free to message me anytime!

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I had RNY on 2/23 and have been on and off this site, hoping to connect with some like minded people for support. I am 34 (for another month, anyway) and have 2 little ones at home, and would love to have a couple of buddies to help keep me honest through this process. Kika - if you're still looking for a buddy, I am here!

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Hello, I'm in Sacramento an surgery for me is in 6 days. I have 3 boys at home and am also looking for friends to help me through this process. Feel free to send me a message and friend me :)

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I am in San Diego, Ca. I am 10 months post op and at goal weight. I would love to be a support to someone else! I know my support team and those who had gone before me were so valuable to me!!

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