Friends or foe

[vgbranch 17]

I have found that people who were my "friends" are now my enemies. What's the deal? I have not changed just can't eat with you! Now they roll their eyes and don't talk at all! Oh we!l! You were never my friend in the first place!! Now, you are dieting and exercising! Really? Only trying to prove you can do it unlike I did it! Whatever! Bye Felicia!

[Kimmy0926 22]

I'm a little worried about that myself. I love your attitude!!! Good Luck!

[Healthy_life2 8,327]

@@vgbranch

What kind of friends are they if they cannot be supportive of you.

Some relationships will change with this process. Some people will be unnerved or even threatened by your changes. They are not comfortable for things to be out of the norm.

You might have to distance some relationships. Or even cut them off if they are trying to sabotage what you are working so hard for. Just know this is normal for a lot of us after surgery.

Keep supportive positive people in your life. Why waste your time and energy on the negative.

[ShrinkingPeach 1,291]

Juts know that their lack of support comes from something within them and it isn't truly about you. Keep up the great work and you will be fabulous! They will be green with envy!