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Okay.... 10 days to go and I feel the pit coming back. I think I will begin my journal today and start writing. Hopefully I will look back and have a good laugh at myself.

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I can relate. Been on this journey for over a year. Just recently approved and have my surgical consult on Thursday. Last step of many before I get my date. Now for the first time I'm kind of feeling some trepidation. I'd never back out as I know this is my destiny, but I definitely feel... out of sorts in a way. Hard to explain.

Journaling is a good way to get your thoughts in order. I started a personal video journal to track both my physical and mental changes from day one and it's definitely helped.

Good luck!

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Thank you for the reply :-) A year is a long time! I just started pursuing this in March so it feels so fast.... I almost can't believe it! I am stopping to get a new journal today.

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It seems quite normal to feel this way, from what others have said on the boards ... 10 days though!! Exciting times :D

Best wishes for the days to fly by and please keep in touch and let us know how everything went xx

Kate

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Thanks Kate! I have been on a roller coaster! I am exicited though and will update everyone.

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Hi shugarhey! I just had my first consult appointment yesturday and the surgeon suggested the best surgery for me is the sleeve gastrectomy. I was hoping gastric bypass, due to family i know who have had great success with weight loss after having bypass surgery. Im a bit concerned because this is permanent and with the other surgeries like the bypass can be reversed. It was a better choice cuz of my history of smoking. But i have quit that again and am on day 4 today. Just seems unfair for me to have that type of weight loss surgery but I will get a positive mind frame and push on through. Good luck with urs and keep us posted. Oh btw I'm a newbie just joined !

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Welcome and congrats @Steph6981! I would say if you really trust you doctor then follow his recommendations however, never feel bad about getting a 2nd opinion if you feel more comfortable with one surgery vs. The other. You do have choices and remember it's your body! Good Luck on your journey!

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Thank you for the reply :-) A year is a long time! I just started pursuing this in March so it feels so fast.... I almost can't believe it! I am stopping to get a new journal today.

This is something I have contemplated for a long time, but I literally made the decision and called and scheduled it! Lol! I did it so I wouldn't have to deal with anxiety, etc, I tend to overthink everything. ????

Good luck to you girls!! I'm excited but a little scared myself!

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