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Need to not give up, ive had lapband for 3 years this summer. I lost some and gain some back. I have two months this summer where i can dedicate to lose some pounds and get healthy. What works for you? I hate having this tool and not take advantage of it! Please help!

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Get a checkup and have your fill level checked. Then just go back to basics. Protein, no sliders, eat slowly. You can do it! Good for you for recommitting!

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I think being here on the forum is a great way of keeping our heads in the game -- I'm with Just Watch Me. Put your medical professionals to work and see whether you need a fill. Choose yourself -- this is your time, your summer. Here's to your healthy future! Don't forget to pat yourself on the back for all you have done. Now, Rock It!

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Consider tracking your food intake on Myfitnesspal or something like it. I found it invaluable for tracking calories and keeping me focused.

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Thank you! I will totally will be taking your edvice, on Tuesday I will call up my Dr and start tracking my food. Sometimes I feel alone. Most people I know don't have weight issues. I have been thinking I may be too tight. I heard that may cause people to gain. What do you guess think?

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Dont have the "too tight " problem, but you don't mention any exercise. What are you doing ? Any favorites ? Some class or activity you've been wanting to try ?? Spring is a good time to get outside for a walk in the evening or a bike ride , etc. Find something you enjoy and it won't feel like work ! Good luck !

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Don't give up! This is a personal journey & is different for all of us. You may need to get several adjustments before finding your comfort zone. Your doctor wants you to succeed--write all your questions down & use your visit as an opportunity to get what you need & then spring into action. It's awesome you're recommitting--you can do this! Wishing you all the best from Chicago!

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Hey LOL, I'm in exactly the same place you are. 3 years out and staying at 45 pounds lost. A year "off" for back surgery (successful) and I'm ready to get back on track. With summer and my new back I am able to do some exercising - tennis and swimming - an 11-year-old coach does wonders. Good luck to you.

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Thanks Daddyof4, it has been hard! I hate it when people ask me how I'm doing with my band, I mean it is obvious I haven't done as well as I would like. Just keeping off the weight is a great thing. :) I have faith I will do good these two months! !!!

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