Relationship woes regarding weight loss

[Kcos626 8]

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Edited April 17, 2015 by Kcos626

[woo woo 872]

It's an insecurity thing, don't sweat it.

Just make sure he knows how great you think he is. Also , whatever you do, don't lecture him about his eating or weight.

[ilikecake2much 65]

I completely agree with Woo Woo. It sounds like he is feeling insecure. My hubby gets the same way (and I haven't even had surgery yet). Just do everything you can to reassure him that you only have eyes for him. And remind him that you only want to lose weight to be healthier and happier with yourself and better in the bedroom for him. He obviously "likes skinny girls" because you were thin when you met. Losing weight should not jeopardize your relationship. Just boost his ego as much as you can.