Why we hate fat people

[JustWatchMe 7,117]

Thank you both. Sometimes it just gets to the boiling over point. When that happens I'm glad I have kindred souls here who get it!

[CowgirlJane 14,259]

I feel very much the same. Just so happy with ME I don't have time to worry about others.

Like I said, it does worry me a little that I have gone down the "obese people are invisible" route which I don't like.

I was out listening to live music a couple weeks back and a very obese man with a cane was there. He so wanted to dance, and a few of us got him out on the dancefloor - he just sorta bobbed his head dancing in place - but had a good time. However, in general - I don't notice obese people.

I don't have hatred or negative feelings toward obese people. I know it felt to be judged, and I remember how I felt being the biggest person in every room and everywhere I went.

So, I probably shouldn't admit this, and I don't mean to be glib...but I always think I'm the hottest old bag at Krogers, lol! It is not in direct comparison to anyone there, but I am just so happy to be thin and feel so good in my cute clothes that I'm pretty sure everyone thinks it, too haha! I just crack myself up, because just like not everyone judged me for obesity, not everyone (and probably NO ONE) notices me at Krogers. My point is that it is and was my own internal dialogue, much as @@gowalking indicated.

So. Like me, you are freaking tickled with yourself.