Sick of the drama

[RJ'S/beginning 5,358]

If the shoe fits....

One shoe fits fine. The other a little tight....Been a problem since surgery..... bah ha ha ha

[CowgirlJane 14,260]

I browsed a couple of the dueling threads and my take on all of this is that there is quite a bit of truth on "both sides".

I remember a time when I was very emotionally vulnerable over the topic of weight, food and weight loss surgery. I had failed miserably with the band and it was humiliating. I lurked here for months and then posted quite selectively - it is very true that sharing certain things leave you vulnerable to perceived or real attack. I remember very small comments would sting a bit.

It was over time that my "emotional self pain" decreased and those same remarks were not experienced that way.

However, as my mother used to say "It takes 2 to Tango"

On this forum, it usually takes 3-6 to really throw down good..haha... but drama is pretty easy to avoid. Just don't engage.