Totally frustrated and don't know what to do

[GreenEyes604 753]

I know one thing @yoyolifechange11 you are a lot better woman than me because I would have kicked his ass to the curb a long time ago. No one deserved to be emotionally abused, and you my dear are in a very toxic relationship.

And one other thing that I know is that his ass better have six-pack abs and you can bounce a quarter off of, and not one ounce of body fat. He better be a damn ADONIS!!!

[Thinkingthinner1109 485]

Ask him every morning what his strategy is for the day to be a respectful, loving husband. Sounds like to me he has just a hard of time doing that as we all on this forum have had a hard time losing weight. Geeesh! I have been i. Both a physically abusive relationship and a verbally abusive relationship. Neither is acceptable but the bruises healed the mental abuse never did. Now I have the most awesome husband ever! He supports me in everything I do or want to do!

[Bonawanabfree 280]

What you are going through sounds so terribly painful and I am so sorry you are having to deal with this kind of situation. The only thing i can say is leave your uncaring insensitive husband get a job that offers insurance and get this done for you. He does not deserve you. Im sorry but he makes me very angry. i wouldnt ask him for anything but a divorce.

[blondebomb 580]

I am trying to keep up with Suzanne Sommers, but it's a full-time job!

lol!

[blondebomb 580]

Ask him every morning what his strategy is for the day to be a respectful, loving husband. Sounds like to me he has just a hard of time doing that as we all on this forum have had a hard time losing weight. Geeesh! I have been i. Both a physically abusive relationship and a verbally abusive relationship. Neither is acceptable but the bruises healed the mental abuse never did. Now I have the most awesome husband ever! He supports me in everything I do or want to do!

i can relate to an x ..its taken 10 plus yrs of talk therapy to realize he was a sick man and that i carried the responsibility of everything his and my issues..but i moved on remarried 16 yrs ago to my best friend he is a special man my biggest support! Happy for you!

[Liz5012 47]

I agree with everyone! You are in a tough situation, but you can do anything! Just remember that the weight loss is for you and your health!

Look in the mirror and remind yourself at how strong and independent you are, get a job, do some exercising and go girl!