Lifeafter40 89 Posted March 8, 2015 (edited) My surgery is on the 19th my surgeon said to start my per op diet 3/9 because of low BMI. I ask was it ok to start early she said sure. I started my Pe op diet 3/5 and its ok, here's the problem my daughter made her first Pay check from work study and she wants to take me out to eat what shall I do? Let me be honest I want chose healthy choices. Please help me out???????????? Edited March 8, 2015 by Lifeafter40 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bewell 222 Posted March 8, 2015 I started my pre-op diet early and also went out to eat a few times. I practiced eating how I would eat post-op. VERY small portions and no carbs, low fat. It can be done! And it was hard but worth the effort. I got a good look at what life will be after WLS and grateful that WLS helps so much with the hunger and amounts. FYI- My doc said the primary purpose of the pre-op diet it to shrink your liver so the surgery is easier. They have to move your liver away from your stomach. Suggest you consider your up-coming surgery and make it easy for your surgeon to get to your stomach. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hoven 33 Posted March 8, 2015 While its a great moment to have your child want to take you out. Another way to look at this is a teaching moment that you are taking care of yourself. Perhaps Celebrate another way like going to a museum or a walk on the beach. Our culture traditionally uses food as a way to Celebrate, but perhaps now is the time to change how you celebrate the good in your life. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lifeafter40 89 Posted March 8, 2015 I didn't go out to eat but had a bad snack but tomorrow is my official start of my Pre op diet. I promise you the snack was better than going out but tomorrow ain't no going outside of the pre op diet Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Elode 8,093 Posted March 8, 2015 @@Lifeafter40 Keep strong Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chunkyloverlovesyou 197 Posted March 9, 2015 I say go crazy, after surgery its forced compliance and you will learn the hard way Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
samuelsmom 670 Posted March 9, 2015 @ Honestly, I wouldn't advise anyone to go crazy. Why? Because it reinforces helplessness in relation to food intake. In the 3 months before surgery, I had to journal everything I ate and I told the dietitian that I planned to take a day off every week to eat what I wanted. She said that was fine as long as I continued to write it down. I found that although I had pizza or Pasta or other high caloric foods once a week, knowing that I was journaling it helped me to eat a moderate amount. In the 3 months before the pre-op liquids I lost 22 pounds. My doctor just requires a week of liquids pre-op on which I lost another 5 pounds. It was great having that weight off before surgery. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites