blondebomb 580 Posted March 25, 2015 I think it is safe to say that none of us get here by choice. certainly by making bad choices but not with the goal of becoming overweight with the health problems and complications. I think the best thing for me is finding this site and knowing that not only am I not alone in this, but that there really is a way out of the nightmare.I wish that I had made this decision soonerbut maybe I wasn't ready. for the most part I am NOT struggling too hard... Yet. lol! I have to look at this, not just one day at a time, one meal at a time. to be a unit each time I make it through A fay successfully it makes the next day that much easier. I think my biggest problems is being impatient. I want to see huge results overnight. Sigh... i understand..we live in world of instant gratification. Hang in there! Im already 8 months and its flown by!! You'll no when your ready and then you'll second guess yourself in preop!! Lol..it was scary but i so wanted and desperately needed this tool once and for all and i was excited and elated all wrapped up together! Wish you the best..learn alot!! ???? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites