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Well this guy was looking for a date so i set him up with a friend of mine so what ever they didn't click but tonight he told me she was overweight well she not, so then he tells me that i am fat because I'm lazy i am so mad i could smack him. I told him to go back to school and if he thinks I'm fat because i sit at home and don't do nothing his got me wrong and he told me well its a lack of exercise. so then i told him if someone gets up in the morning and go to the gym that me. Im so piss off.

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You should have told him to kiss your fat butt. At least you're not out there begging people to set you up on dates. What is his problem that he's not man enough to find a date on his own? Maybe he's too lazy to put in the work for himself. Just ignore him, he's an ass.

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I hate it when people are like that. I remember when I was a teenager and had a lot of guy friends. They used to date these girls that were horrible. And they would tell me I wish she was like you or had your personality. Yet they would never date me because I was over weight. Now I see them and they are unhappy in thier relatioinships. And I think well thats what you get for going for the skinny girls. I saw one of those guys last week. He had not seen me in over a year and he was shocked. I have lost my weight and got my breast aug. He was looking me up and down. It felt so good. But it really made me appreciate my husband who has loved me when I was big and now. I would drop this guy as a friend he is deffinitly not worth it. And dont set him up with anyone. He would probably only hurt them in the end.

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With friends like that, who needs enemies? Perhaps he was just having a bad day...but if this is really his attitude towards over weight people, it's time to kick that so-called friendship to the curb! There's a name for friendships like this...Toxic! Friends that put you down to make themselves feel superior are not friends and you'll fare much better without them.

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