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Turned 59 last October; had RNY in January. 4.5 weeks out, I've lost 29 lbs, plus 15 pre-op. Tried to have surgery for almost 10 years, but insurance specifically excluded it, year after year. Finally, this past fall, purchased my own policy and came off hubby's work policy - thank you Obamacare, because in Arizona, all Marketplace polices are required to cover WLS. Yes, it costs me monthly premium, plus my out-of-pocket max, but nowhere near what the surgery would cost self-pay, which we couldn't afford. So looking forward to my 60th b-day this coming October now--sure wouldn't have said that before surgery! I expect to be at least 100 lbs lighter than last year!

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LOL it is very common I had my procedure at 43 and turned 44 , 3 days later I do not regret anything except I wish I had it early. I am loving life again and I am off all my medications this was a life saver and I am feeling beautiful everyday. Good luck on your surgery and congrats for making the choice to be healthy.

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There is no best age, just the now age. I was 49 and OMG wished I had done this years sooner! Best decision ever. Good luck on your amazing journey!

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@@KS123 Hi I've got a real jump on you. I turned 65 on December 15th and had surgery on January 16th this year. I would have done it much sooner if I'd had insurance that would pay for it. It's up to the individual but I don't see that age is a factor as long as your physician and surgeon agree you're a candidate for surgery. My choice was live a few more years at the rate I was gaining and feeling, or have surgery and perhaps live to be 100 like my Momma. It's a struggle, probably the hardest thing I've ever done but I'd do it again in a heartbeat! I would think you're probably the norm age. Go for it and don't look back just forward at all those years you'll spend in a healthier, more active body! Good luck.

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I was 5 months from 51...best thing for me!! I refused to live the rest of my life fat an surviving!

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I'm 57 and waiting for my surgery date ~ I never once considered being too old. Never crossed my mind! Could be I've just never been ready until now.

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I'm 45 and waiting for my surgery date!

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LOL! Had my surgery at 68 (am 69 now). 10 pounds to goal.

Best weight loss program I EVER started.

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45 next month- and will be 6 months post GBP :)

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I'm 41 and had my surgery two weeks ago.

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I'm currently 52 and in the middle of my 3 month supervised weight monitoring. I hope to get my surgery either late May or early June, and my 53rd birthday will be in late May. This will be the best birthday present I've had in a long time!

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I was 45 when I had VSG. It is never too late. Wish it could have happened sooner, but we all get to our jumping off point when we are ready.

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I had my surgery 3 weeks before my 45 birthday.

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