Oregondaisy 2,021 Posted March 28, 2015 Dating can really suck. I met a guy a couple of weeks ago. We really hit it off and spent some time together every day. Last night I found out he has a gf in another town, about 50 miles from here. His friend told me not to get hung up on this guy because he always cheats on his gf but then drives back the 50 miles to see her and will spend 10 days or so with her at her house. I asked him about it and he thought it would be just fine if he kept us both, and I shouldn't get mad when he goes to see her. Good Grief! I may just have to give up on men. There's a reason guys in my age group are single. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tamg26k 479 Posted March 31, 2015 Single and ready to mingle! lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shazza42 1 Posted May 26, 2015 Am single and looking to be happy now, as it's been 3 years since I had my sleeve Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Oregondaisy 2,021 Posted May 27, 2015 Being sleeved or whatever weight loss surgery you have had, does not make relationships any easier. I have gone through quite a few, in the almost 9 years since I've lost all my weight. They work out for awhile, but relationships take work, and it's so easy to run and try out the next best thing. Guys don't seem to want to work out problems. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wallflower 188 Posted May 27, 2015 Single female in northwestern Pennsylvania, 37. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pacshari 10 Posted June 10, 2015 Hmm Just had my sleeve 8 days ago. Am thinking it might be wise to taking a dating break... Plus size dating is hard enough then add in hmm Starting A whole new life. I think I may bite off more than I can chew lol:) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ruin's Angel 6 Posted January 23, 2016 Fairly new here, having surgery in the next couple of months. I think a singles site/page is a great idea. I like the thought of having someone who is going through, or has gone through, the same thing I am and has to eat the same way I do! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites