Freaking out! (Scared of Surgery)

[Slimsoon1988 123]

For months I have been President of the Cool club when it came to getting my sleeve. Now 6 days before surgery the freak out is here. The thoughts of death and complications have me worried. I try to assure myself that I will be ok. I am doing my best to stay positive. I'm 26 with a 40BMI, I hope my age and weight is a positive for the healing process (mostly age). How is everyone coping with the scary part of surgery? Tips and advice would be highly appreciated.

[Cathy B 2]

Hello Slimsoon 1988,

My surgery date is on the 27th and I believe every sleeve patient has had those same thoughts just prior to surgery. The key is to focus on positive thoughts and a speedy recovery. Don't let negative thoughts consume you!!

Cathy B.

[samuelsmom 670]

I don't know of anybody who is not afraid before surgery. Don't let last minute jitters get you down!

[Pepper123 320]

Its a everyones thing been scared, its your life be positive. All the best and good luck!!!

[holm7 5]

I felt that way too, and more so about a week before my date. I think it all just starts to get real, after many months of planning. Good luck, I am sure you will do great!!

[Slimsoon1988 123]

Thank you everyone. 5 more days! I really hope and pray to have a safe surgery and speedy recovery afterwards.

[Goatfarmer 29]

I definitely understand. I, too, have been cool and rational throughout planning but now that it IS going to happen, I feel anxious and afraid. My mind is my worst enemy when I am afraid. I am grieving too in anticipation of giving up the foods I depend on to keep me comfortable emotionally. I am asking for courage and calmness as I face this major decision which will impact me forever. Best of luck to you. I am right there with you. Together we can manage our fears.