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You are in my thoughts. Hang in there, you can do this. Hopefully the steroids will help the swelling and the IV fluids will help you feel a little stronger. Dehydration makes you feel horrible. Just remember that it is hard post op but gets gradually easier as time passes and your body heals. By this time next year you are going to feel amazing. Keep us posted.

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At least now you know what the problem is and they are taking steps to correct it. I know it's tough now and you have some rough days ahead, but hang in there! A few months from now this will be a distant memory!

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Maybe do a little aspirational window shopping (online) looking at hot dresses to wear next year on your birthday because by then no matter what you wear, you'll look fierce! Hopefully it will boost morale and keep you in better spirits ???? good luck to you with the hospital

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Sorry to hear about everything but Im sure things will get better. This whole experience is a pretty crazy roller coaster. its going to be hard not associating special ocasions with food. the payoff will be so worth it though. Im glad theres a place like this for everyone to support each other. Hope you have a Happy Birthday!

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You are in my prayers. I hope the steroids help and they are able to fix the stricture and inflammation. Hang in there.

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I'm going to be in the same place. My 2 week diet started today, tomorrow is Valentine's my anniversary is 15 days after surgery and my birthday is 26 days after surgery. I know I will be in the same boat. Happy Birthday and you know it'll get better. Just hang in there

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I haven't had the surgery yet, but my pre op liquid diet is my birthday week at the end of Feb. The things we do to get healthy, right!! @@Jazmundo I am really happy to hear you called your doctor right away before the dehydration got a good hold on you. I'm looking forward to reading how much better you feel once you are back on your feet. Take care, Sherrie

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Happy (belated) Birthday! I agree with the others, think how AWESOME you will be next year on your b-day. Are you feeling better today?

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@Jazmundo,

It's by no means real cake, BUT, with our taste buds a-changin post-op, this smoothy is surprisingly close to the real thing in all but texture.

8 oz cold fat-free milk
1 scoop vanilla Protein powder*
1 tbsp sugar-free instant cheesecake pudding mix, dry
½ tsp cherry extract
3 ice cubes
-Blend in blender on high for 45 seconds.
-Measure out ¼ cup and serve.
Nutrient Analysis: 60.4 calories, 8.4g Protein, 6.5g carbohydrate, .2g fat.
Though do wait until the stricture is cleared up - poor you! Let us know how we can support you.

Edited by Smye

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