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Hi Everyone,

I am 4 weeks post op and I am looking for some support buddies...the first few weeks were scary/exciting, but now that I am back into real life I am feeling a bit down and alone in this. I don't really know anyone else with this experience and have trouble expressing myself to others who cannot relate. Is there anyone else out there who hit some depression so quickly in?

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uuugh- 27 days post op today- and i had the blues so bad the first couple of weeks, i didn't even want to leave my bed. and i hardly did. i totally sympathize, as i also kept this a secret from everyone but hubby and a couple of friends.

i personally try not to talk about it, because i don't want the actual surgery to define me and my weight loss. i want to feel like i'm doing some of it on my own as well. i mean, this is the hardest diet i've ever been on and i'm kicking butt and want some credit.

the whole process is hard and overwhelming, but know you are not alone.

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I had the blues for quite a while. Bariatric Pal kept me sane :). I'm here if you need some support! I know it's not easy right now, but you will make it through.

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