RJ'S/beginning 5,358 Posted February 8, 2015 I was asked today if I was Tabs mom. I said yup and the woman said boy you sure lost a pile of weight. I thought to myself. What is a pile of weight anyway. 25 lbs, 50 lbs, 100 lbs. What constitutes a pile of weight. Is it like a pile of leaves or feathers or hammers. I find the expression a little odd. But I thanked her anyway and told her that most people think I am my husbands new wife. She laughed and said she barely recognized me. That she had to look and look to see it was me. A compliment followed closely by what may have appeared as an insult. I don't know...I think if she had not seen my hubby she would have never known it was me at all.. Thanks for the compliment I think..A pile of weight this girl has lost! who would have thunk it..... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Healthy_life2 8,324 Posted February 8, 2015 (edited) what a hundred pounds in a pile looks like @RJ'S/beginning I found the pile of weight you lost. . It is always funny to me the responses that people give you after weight loss. Take them all as a compliment. You earned it Edited February 8, 2015 by jenn1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dolores33778 248 Posted February 8, 2015 That's a good one. My neighbor (male) said he thought my husband got a new wife too. Well, he sorta did and I really like her! Great job on your "pile". Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
laurenella82 625 Posted February 9, 2015 That's a new one. A "pile" of weight? I would have asked her, "exactly what is a "pile" of weight?? And don't say a ton because I take things very literally sometimes and I never had a ton to lose lol! Congrats on your weight loss...the whole pile! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rogofulm 2,440 Posted February 9, 2015 Congratulations on losing your "pile"! I try to take every comment/compliment, even the weird ones as positive feedback. No matter how clumsily they say it, I think most people are well-intentioned. In my case, someone told me I had lost a "crap ton" of weight. I think that's my favorite compliment so far! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
heynowkc 329 Posted February 9, 2015 (edited) Some regional (or even familial) slang varies. I had a friend who used the word "heaps" a lot. As in "I ate heaps/a heap of chips last night." I think it just means "a lot." Edited February 9, 2015 by heynowkc Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LipstickLady 25,682 Posted February 9, 2015 Aren't piles another word for hemorrhoid? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RJ'S/beginning 5,358 Posted February 9, 2015 Congratulations on losing your "pile"! I try to take every comment/compliment, even the weird ones as positive feedback. No matter how clumsily they say it, I think most people are well-intentioned. In my case, someone told me I had lost a "crap ton" of weight. I think that's my favorite compliment so far! Crap ton is far worse...you win the prize...lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RJ'S/beginning 5,358 Posted February 9, 2015 Aren't piles another word for hemorrhoid? Oh great I lost a lot of hemorrhoids....lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LipstickLady 25,682 Posted February 9, 2015 No, you only lost one. One pile. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RJ'S/beginning 5,358 Posted February 9, 2015 No, you only lost one. One pile. That's the biggest hemorrhoid I ever heard of then...lol It might have been a tumor! hehehehehehehe Share this post Link to post Share on other sites