Got banded in Springfield MO??

[maziemommy 8]

Quick reply to Hollygurl...

If you lose weight, and have a good relationship it can get better....

if you have an already poor relationship, it can get worse.

I think it has little or nothing to do with my weightloss, I feel better and healthier and more active, I'm not sure he has even noticed. I think feeling better, could have made me a better wife, but he would have to be sobber to notice.

Best of luck and health to all. Keep in touch... I'm offline alot right now but will check in.

I'm actually doing very well.:biggrin:

[hollygurl 0]

Mazzie...

I see what your saying. I got a little curious about it because i have met so many people getting divorces after the band. I wanted to know what the deal was... I understand what you saying. Thats too bad that he doesn't care. I'm glad your doing ok. I am so excited about getting the surgery. IT IS SOON!! My last appt w/ dr. edwards is in about a week and then hopefully we can schedule it soon after that!! Hope your all doing well!

~Holly~:biggrin2:

[Suziecat 379]

Mazzie, Hang in there. I was very sad to hear your news. You know what's best for you. We will be here for you.

CinniMae, We need an update. How are you feeling. Please keep us posted. We are thinking of you.

[CinniMae08 0]

Hi, Sorry I didn't update sooner....have been resting. I went to Mexico and was banded on Tuesday...so Thursday was a 15 hour day coming home, from 2 hour wait at the border, to a 3 1/2 hr plane ride, to 3 1/2 hrs ride home in the car.....so Friday I just rested all day....anyway I am doing great, had the shoulder pain yesterday( and my shoulder was swollen...is that normal?) but seems to be better today....incisions are healing nice(very itchy)...and I'm not really hungry at all(just that damn head hunger)..But I do have a ? for u guys....I have hardly had anything to eat in the last 6 days and I havent lost ANY weight since surgery, is it because of the swelling and stuff from surgery? Makes me a little upset...but that is the only thing I can think of....help me on this please!!!Cindy

[Debbie_S 0]

Glad to hear your surgery went well. Yes, the reason you haven't lost anything is all the gas the put in you during surgery and I imagine you've got some Water retention going on as well due to the surgery and traveling. I think I actually gained weight that first week afterward. Hang in there - the gas will eventually leave as will the swelling and you'll be losing again. : )

[CinniMae08 0]

Thanks Debbie, thats what I was thinking but it still made me nervous..I am soooo ready to fit into those smaller clothes again...Cindy

[Suziecat 379]

Glad to hear from you and that all went well. I too did gain just a little at the beginnig. You need to remember that this is a time for you to heal. Pay attention to that. The weight will come off, I gurantee it. You need to heal, give your body time for this. Follow all the instructions that they gave you. If you need any information on what to eat and how much, just ask us. We will help anyway we can.

Hang in there.

[SpringfieldMO 0]

Cinnie,

where in Mexico were you banded?

[CinniMae08 0]

I was banded by Dr. Kuri in Tijuana, Mexico....my experience was great, the language barrier with nurses and staff was the only frustrating thing. I do have another ? when I bend over I have a sharp pain by my belly button (no incisions there) do you think its just from being irritated by surgery, its almost like nerve pain or something? Not all the time but just if i move too quickly or bend over wrong...Other wise I am doing good, I did have the shoulder pain BAD for 2 days now, the heat helps that....Cindy

[kjl315 1]

15 hours, 6 minutes and counting...........:biggrin:

[Suziecat 379]

KJL, When your up to it we need an update. Need to know how everything went.

Hope you re doing well.

[kjl315 1]

KJL, When your up to it we need an update. Need to know how everything went.

Hope you re doing well.

I was banded yesterday and all is well. Very little pain (heating pad got rid of the shoulder pain) and I'm getting around without any problems. Now I just need to keep busy so I don't think about food!

:tt1:

[maziemommy 8]

I'm still here thinking about everyone. Congrats- to all.

My update... he has been served with divorce papers! He has a lawyer now too. This is the beginning, of the end (long overdue). lol He never called me a "fat ass" until I lost 100 pounds. Now that's his favorite name for me. More later, Kim

[kjl315 1]

I'm still here thinking about everyone. Congrats- to all.

My update... he has been served with divorce papers! He has a lawyer now too. This is the beginning, of the end (long overdue). lol He never called me a "fat ass" until I lost 100 pounds. Now that's his favorite name for me. More later, Kim

A divorce is no fun, but I'll bet getting rid of him will be a bigger weight off your shoulders (and spirit) than that 100 pounds.

If there's anything you need, let me know.

Good luck.

[CinniMae08 0]

hi guys, just wanted to say I'm doing great, today i got on the scales and i have lost 16 lbs...I CANT BELIEVE IT...I am sooooo greatful already.still a little sore but no big deal...Mazzie..you and your family will be in my prayers..I wish you the best, stay strong....Cindy