TristanNicole 169 Posted April 20, 2015 This is something I'm so afraid of for when I finally have my surgery. I think my parents both think that I can do it without the surgery... which is encouraging and I know they believe in me, but I guess they don't realize that I've tried almost every diet out there with very minimal, short term success, I do think they will both support me through. I feel like my mom has made a big deal about the costs (my insurance does cover after going through the hoops) and it makes me wonder if it is her trying to convince me not to go forward. My mom is also the first person to tell friends/family things about me. I'm not shy but I am modest and don't usually tell people things unless they ask. Here is hoping she will understand that I don’t want everyone to know. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites