My failure :(

[bandedbunny 2]

I am so excited to read of everyone's success, but feel like pouring my story out for some advice.

I was banded in June 14 and since have lost about 15lbs. I've struggled since the op and really regret ever having it done. Let me explain...

My band is very very finicky. My first full I could only take .5ml as liquids couldn't pass and I actually started bleeding. I have now had about 6 tiny fills, and had about 3 Unfills due to my band being so bloody awkward. It swells sometimes for no reason at all. I had ice Water once...it closed up and I couldn't swallow my own spit

I know the band is meant to help you feel full, but I've never had that. I never feel satisfied. Either I can keep eating easily, or I'm choking to death as something's gotten stuck. I'm beginning to think that people lose weight by there simply being a blockade to their stomach. I just have never had a satisfied feeling.

I try to eat textured foods...though nothing before about 3pm...everything gets stuck before then.

I'm so close to just giving up and doing some other diet and just ignore that the band is even there.

I feel so demotivated and clueless as to why it doesn't work for me.

Anyone have any ideas?

[JustWatchMe 7,117]

I'm sorry it hasn't worked for you. This sounds miserable. Does your surgeon have any ideas, like a revision to sleeve?

[bandedbunny 2]

My surgeon is a total jerk. 4 weeks ago I had to have Fluid removed because some lettuce and chicken got stuck and all he did was tell me off. He took out a full ml...bear in mind I've only got 4ml....and told me not to eat anything but chicken salads.

I wouldn't really consider another surgery...this cost me plenty and was only 7 mths ago

[JustWatchMe 7,117]

I have trouble with dry chicken and can't eat pork at all. Beef is usually fine, but once I got very very stuck on dry beef. I do okay with ground meat like chili. I've heard that constant irritation of the band (being too tight) can be a vicious circle. Can you try liquids transitioning into mushies and then solids as if it was right after surgery? Maybe your band needs a rest.

[pink dahlia 2,513]

Im sorry you're having such a rough time, I would hope your surgeon would be a little more helpful, obviously not with the way he's treating you. If this is any help I can't drink anything ice cold, especially in the morning, it just comes back up. I also have cant do chicken breast, or pork chops like you. That doesn't mean you or the band failed, it just means you need to substitute chicken thighs and pork loin or try a thinner, softer meat. Same with trying out different types of lettuce and other foods. Sometimes it s the texture or the brand that can determine failure or success. I hope you keep trying before giving up completely. Sending you hugs !!

[TheProfessor 378]

Hi bandedbunny!

I just write you a long private message. :-) Hopefully it might trigger some insight... or at least feel like support! Check your messages.

Don't give up - for every problem there is a solution.

[dawnb516 1]

Banded bunny... I'm so sorry ! Where did you have surgery? Maybe it is time to try another practice ?

[funky_monkey800 247]

@@bandedbunny, so sorry that your experience thus far has been terrible!

Maybe look into another doctor just for your fills since your current doc sounds unpleasant to deal with. And i also have to wait till mid morning before i can eat anything. Dont give up! You have come so far! 15lbs is still 15lbs! Every lb is a success! And everyone is different when it comes to losing weight. I think the problem may be the doctor.....or at least thats where i would start. A friendly knowledgeable dr who can not only answer your questions but can help you work around these issues...i was banded in oct/2014 so i am not as knowledgeable as others here..but i think having a good doc matters...and then slowly experiment with your food...thats the only way i know what works for me. Trial and error. I know i have had some speed bumps, but i am sure in the end it will be worth it! There are alot of us here for support!

[gavin 1]

I have had the same problems band was done in June have lost just 20 pounds I cannot get away from my sweets I am addicted to sugar going to the dr Thursday sure he is going to be angry does anyone have a suggestion on how I can get away fr the sugar?

[pink dahlia 2,513]

Gavin, if you ever come up with a solution to the sugar addiction, please let me know ! I find healthier sweet substitute seem to help, Weight Watchers ice cream, or frozen fat free pudding , etc . Good luck !!